I'd say you'd want to deal with the self esteem stuff first before everything else. When you have a good base of that you can build from it. Instead of SE I think E3 would be a good idea, it has Self Esteem programming and much more that can help in that area.
Or the other idea could be USLM4 and have a goal around Self Esteem (though it is in the skeleton script but a goal would be more focused) and a goal around money.
Or the other idea could be USLM4 and have a goal around Self Esteem (though it is in the skeleton script but a goal would be more focused) and a goal around money.