09-03-2016, 07:22 AM
"Wtf do I feel so miserable today"
To me it sounds like you are having issues with your goal.
What is your goal for this relationship? That's the first question. Depending on your goal DMSI might be helping or harming you right now.
It sounds like you are connecting to her on a really deep level, and this a little scary for you.
Do you want to get serious with her? Do you want this to be a fling? Maybe the goal for your sex life is to have a stable, long term partner that is willing, maybe it isn't.
Find out what you want and the rest will follow.
As for being intimate, if that's what you want, just be honest if you can. Find an appropriate time to be vulnerable with her and tell her a little bit of your history and that maybe you want to change how you approach a relationship. When a man is masculine, a woman will respond and protect his sensitive side if she truly values him, it's when he's oversensitive that issues arise. From what you have said it appears that she values you highly so if you want to be vulnerable, she'll be gentle, and protective of your vulnerability.
I know this might sound ridiculous, but it sounds like you have quite the woman, and depending on your goals this may help.
To me it sounds like you are having issues with your goal.
What is your goal for this relationship? That's the first question. Depending on your goal DMSI might be helping or harming you right now.
It sounds like you are connecting to her on a really deep level, and this a little scary for you.
Do you want to get serious with her? Do you want this to be a fling? Maybe the goal for your sex life is to have a stable, long term partner that is willing, maybe it isn't.
Find out what you want and the rest will follow.
As for being intimate, if that's what you want, just be honest if you can. Find an appropriate time to be vulnerable with her and tell her a little bit of your history and that maybe you want to change how you approach a relationship. When a man is masculine, a woman will respond and protect his sensitive side if she truly values him, it's when he's oversensitive that issues arise. From what you have said it appears that she values you highly so if you want to be vulnerable, she'll be gentle, and protective of your vulnerability.
I know this might sound ridiculous, but it sounds like you have quite the woman, and depending on your goals this may help.
