08-30-2016, 10:09 AM
(08-30-2016, 09:46 AM)DisneylandUSA Wrote: Good idea Because, women want to be treated to dinners, movies, concerts, shopping and especially, the newest gadgets, Samsung note 7; Surface pro and those wonderful, Iphones
ROFL --
I mean, you know me, man... I ain't buying anyone sh*t. I've had a rule for years that's really worked: A woman gets little to none of my money unless we're in some kind of intimate relationship. FWB, committed monogamy, etc. And regular, passionate sex is a requirement to continue that relationship.
There will be no dead bedrooms for me. Ever. That happened to me ONCE, in a very terrible nine month relationship. I let it go on too long because the woman was quite suicidal, threatened to kill herself if I left. One day, I was finally like -- "fine, do it then. I'll live long enough to get over it."
Once we're in a established relationship, I'll loosen the reins a little bit. Treat her to a few dinners, a few gifts from time to time. The moment she begins to have that, "what have you done for me lately" attitude, I withdraw completely.
I'm not doing this so I'll have money to spend on women. I'm doing it because I want to have a solid life base. There's really no point in even dating if you're going to stress over every dollar you spend. Or, if you hate your job, etc. That's how men end up making a woman their life mission... and you know how that ends.