08-27-2016, 05:18 PM
(08-27-2016, 09:56 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote:(08-27-2016, 09:40 AM)Steven Wrote:(08-27-2016, 08:11 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote: ...you gotta validate her sexuality... You gotta accept, approve and validate her inner sexual energy... *validate* her inner sexual being, she is all yours.
I don't know if I know what you mean by this. Could you please give some examples of validating her sexuality or inner sexual energy or inner sexual being?
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So, my friend, you need to push the buttons that turn her on. Create a fantasy in her mind that she cannot resist. (Okay, not create a fantasy in her mind, but trigger it.) In order to do that, you first need to ACCEPT that her sexuality is beyond her looks. Second, APPROVE her sexuality, make her trust you on a sexual level. That she'll be okay, that you understand her sexuality, and that you will not judge her. And through this whole process, you VALIDATE her. On a sexual level. Not how society validates her, not how her neighbour or that pervert in the street does. They all appeal to her looks. Not her sexuality.
Hope it make sense!
You mostly repeated the thing you said rather than giving actual examples of actions and behaviors to accomplish "validating her sexuality and her inner sexual energy." What would you say one does to do so?
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