08-25-2016, 06:42 PM
(08-25-2016, 06:33 PM)Shannon Wrote:Quote:I fail to believe that I'm getting this much respect from the aura, but it's women are perceiving me as low value. Like, that's not how it works -- women love a man that other men respect and look up to.
*Boggled*
How can you possibly think that you're getting increased respect from men and less value is being perceived by women? That doesn't make an ounce of sense. It would be that the respect from men only increased your value in the eyes of the women from social proof alone, and the only explanation I have so far for the ghosting that consistently makes sense is that:
A) You are being perceived as so high value that she's self disqualifying automatically.
B) You are so damned sexually attractive that she's ASDing, and something's not yet powerful enough to overcome that or prevent it.
C) There's a huge dissonance between the signals you're sending, and it's turning her off.
C would only seem to be a reasonable option if that is happening based on the script dredging up deep subconscious fears that are not being dealt with because I removed the OGSF script.
Something is out of alignment. Either not being balanced correctly, or not being dealt with or not powerful enough or some combination of the three. But that's what we are trying to figure out here.
I'm not sure why you're boggled, I think there's a misunderstanding. What I'm saying is that I fail to believe that I would get so much respect from men, but be ghosted for "low status" from the women, like some of the other people here believe.
