03-06-2019, 09:57 PM
(03-06-2019, 08:37 PM)Benjamin Wrote: More classic examples of if you want advice on women don't ask on this forum, because this is what you get.
Seriously... you think with a situation where you have a girl suggest something that incredibly stupid, and you're actually thinking of accepting it, that you should actually expand on it and try to give him advice about it? A man with any self respect would never accept that situation.
I really should stop thinking that this nonsense can't get any worse.
As for the actual question, I wish I knew. I've been there a few times. But it does sound like DMSI is working through something.
Why not accept it?
It can fulfill the pairbonding part of human needs. She is okay with me having sex with / dating others. And I definitely plan on having sex with women. So I don’t understand how accepting this has anything to do with my level of self-respect.
You can’t always get want you want, but you always get what you need. I wanted sex. I got pairbonding instead. A while ago I experienced zero affection, zero sex and zero pairbonding. Now I am experiencing affection and pairbonding. But still lack sex.
Consider everything, and choose whatever resonates with you (when the opportunity arises to choose the thing that resonates with you. For example, sex hasn’t been an opportunity for me. But pairbonding has, etc).
