DMSI Journey

[ShanghaiKiwi]

Hey I respect that, I have no problem at all with this rule, in fact I fully agree with it. I simply forgot, is all. Like I said, it's been a while.

[Benjamin]

That's cool. Just had to mention it cos you wrote quite a bit on it.

[ShanghaiKiwi]

Day 2

Just *wow*. Another member on this forum shared some stuff with me (I can't go into detail, forum rules) that completely revolutionized my whole view on sexual ethics. I no longer see any problem with premarital sex. Basically as long as she's not married already or a relative (ewww), and it's not hurting anyone, it's okay. Like I said I can't explain details but the end result is a great big rock of guilt and shame has been lifted off my back. I'm not just rationalizing it away either (that would only bottle things up) but genuinely believe I was wrong all these years about thinking that premarital sex was bad.

It has to be the sub that manifested that conversation. Amazing. This was a paradigm shift for me.

[RoaringLion]

We share some similarities. Both living in China. My friends wife doesn't have much of a sex drive and my girl doesn't either. This has led me to look elsewhere and both me and my friend are quite unhappy with our current situations so we are both planning to change them.

[ShanghaiKiwi]

Good on ya mate. Are you going to find a 小三 or just leave her?


EDIT: Translation for those who don't know Chinese: 'little #3', i.e. a mistress

[RoaringLion]

I'm undecided. Still have feelings for her but they are fading by the day. I don't want to go into too much detail on this forum but there are afew things keeping me in this relationship for now.

Some of these Chinese girls are very very tempting. I see many girls here who excite me.

[ShanghaiKiwi]

@RoaringLion
If you ever hit the point where your mind wants out but your emotions are inconveniently lagging behind and you just want them to shut up so you can leave, I recommend the EYRR (End Your Romantic Relationship) sub. Very good. My wife was exposed to it as well but it hasn't seemed to have so much effect on her, I guess because she really wants the marriage to last. But it seems like its more about the high status having a white man in the house than the actual relationship...

[ShanghaiKiwi]

Day 3

Okay so I'm pretty excited about the sub and kind of want to post every day even though there's nothing to note today (other than a headache, a completely unrelated toothache, and tiredness which is probably more from sleeping with headphones than the sub itself). I am enjoying sleeping with the sub on though, its hard to explain the feeling but its definitely different. I'm not sure I have ever felt this feeling before, it's very subtle yet still quite surreal.

I just want to say today that I feel some journals seem to me to be a little introspective and mention a lot of trivial little stuff that I'm not entirely convinced is caused by the sub. Its not my intention to criticise but I do want to prevent myself from falling into the same trap because it certainly is exciting and I can totally see myself doing that, out of sheer enthusiasm. It's so much easier to see someone else doing it than yourself! So I'm going to make an effort to avoid introspection and reading too much into things, whilst reporting the newsworthy things that I consider are undeniably a direct result of the sub.

I'm also planning on sticking religiously to the instructions (5 contiguous loops) and to commit several months to the cause, both for testing's sake and my own. I struggle to commit the 5.5 contiguous hours unless I'm in bed, so I can't be awake for all of it. If I try during the day, I'm afraid I might have to stop half way through and it won't be contiguous - at least at night time, I can guarantee 5 contiguous loops.

[Shannon]

And what are you going to do when 3.0 comes out in a month or two?

[ShanghaiKiwi]

And what are you going to do when 3.0 comes out in a month or two?

Probably upgrade? Depends on disposable income really. I didn't know the final consummation was coming up so soon, I figured there'd be other tests first, like 2.5, 2.6... no? If I did pay extra to upgrade to 3.0, I'd most certainly commit to more time, maybe an extra 4-6 months.

However it also depends on circumstance - like I mentioned earlier I'll be ditching my STBXW in a few weeks and flying to New Zealand, so I'll be jobless. If I stay poor for too long I might have to put DMSI 3.0 on hold and take Manifest Your Perfect Job or the Increase Your Sales sub to get some SEO clients until I'm settled, then climb back aboard the DMSI train. But it'd only be a temporary quick fix to make sure the rent is paid, and then back to priority #1.

I'd only put DMSI on hold as a last resort, I'm pretty sure I can get a job and/or some clients without dropping it.

[RoaringLion]

I think 3.0 will be free if it is the next release since so far the results haven't been as good as we have hoped.

[ShanghaiKiwi]

I think 3.0 will be free if it is the next release since so far the results haven't been as good as we have hoped.

Well the sales page said the free upgrade was for "2.x"

[Lowe]

It was not the case for some time and there was some confusion, but Shannon recently clarified that V2.x testers will get a free upgrade to V3.0 when it comes out.

V3.0 will probably get a price hike, but testers who bought it already and are testing it are providing feedback for Shannon so he knows what improvements to make. Hence testers get a free upgrade.

So no, there will be no charge for 3.0 if you have a paid copy of 1.0 or 2.x.

[ShanghaiKiwi]

I really like what Shannon said about sniping, that the more attractive you find them, the more attracted to you they will be. I will take this into account when looking for results.

For example there's this *amazing* bbw woman who runs this local pub (emphasis on 'beautiful' here). When I first met her about a month ago I told her that I couldn't help myself but tell her that I genuinely hadn't seen such a beautiful woman in years (its true!). She smiled for a bit and then looked around the pub, focusing on the live music and ignored me. There were a few other guys with her at the table, perhaps one of them was her boyfriend? But they didn't speak English so they didn't understand what I said (she is fluent). I chickened out and went to the toilet as a getaway, then sat at another table. But honestly though. I'm going to let the sub run for a week and then go say hi to her again just to see what happens, because she is so beautiful she floors me. If anyone brings out the best in my use of DMSI, it'd be her.

(This happened before I started DMSI)