05-05-2017, 01:32 PM
(05-05-2017, 10:59 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: Okay, texted her today. We talked about different stuff and then she came up with doing something together, but mentioned not only both of us but also together with other people. She said stuff like you cannot have enough friends and we come also well along together etc. I said that's fine but we also can do something together only both of us. She was fine with it until I mentioned watching a movie. First she still said, yeah, why not but then suddenly she was like "Oh, don't get the wrong idea here". I said we continue making plans when you are well again (she is sick).
This sounds for me more like she wanna be friends with me than FWB. Funny enough I don't even care that much if she wanna be only friends or not but at least it is not the goal for me. Honestly, I wish woman would be more straight with what they want and what not. This back and forth confuses me and I notice if I don't know where the journey goes I get insecure and get a lot fear of doing something wrong. So far for today.
Hey! In my opinion here, she's actually testing you here to see if you view yourself as "boyfriend" material for her (i.e. are you lower status than she originally thought when she viewed you only as quick hookup material). If you want to be viewed only as a sex partner and not boyfriend or friend, then I would suggest declining with a "no thank you" or giving her an excuse when your plans with friends come up. If she's awesome enough to be her boyfriend than by all means hang out around her friends but expect little to no sex and a lot of teasing and frustration. (Again this is just my opinion and experience). As I mentioned before a lot of times when you decline to hang out with women socially who dangled a sex offer, they'll wait 10 days (and a lot of times, exactly 10 days for some weird reason) before coming over late at night just for sex.
