09-09-2017, 02:55 AM
To be fair, and not to sound like a dick but I’m thinking you’re taking “negative” experiences too personal and putting too much emphasis on them. It’s just a reference experience. Everything is just information, it’s how you interpret it and how you respond to it that matters. That’s up for you to decide. Even if you had countless experiences that many people would regard as shameful, awful or whatever, it doesn’t really matter. You made through it, you’re still alive, breathing. That’s the only thing that matters.
Thoughts are just thoughts, regardless of the subject you can change them unless you keep thinking the same things over and over again. And if attractive girls do give you negative experiences, maybe they’re not for you? :d Maybe you should just give them up? :d
I wouldn’t want to put any effort into “squashing” any negative thoughts, I would just focus on creating more positive thoughts and seeing myself as a catch to women. See yourself as a person that has good experiences with women, that attractive women want to be with, that is more than worthy of them etc. etc. regardless of how awkward or untrue it feels at first.
Ask yourself, what would it be like to be a guy that’s attractive to gorgeous women? Who's already enough. How would that look like? How would you respond to them? How would people respond to you? Etc. etc.
Also what Cory mentions in his Magnetic Mindset program, when you wake up (or rather before sleeping) think first of something that makes you happy and/or that you’re grateful for and then go on a roll, see yourself meeting women, making them laugh, challenging them, whatever floats your boat and have fun with it, then just go about your day and keep seeing yourself as a catch.
If you need some inspiration you could always watch some RSD Infield to strengthen the belief that it’s also possible for you, easy etc.
Even if you do happen to get some “negative” experiences again, enjoy it and don’t take it or women that seriously
Thoughts are just thoughts, regardless of the subject you can change them unless you keep thinking the same things over and over again. And if attractive girls do give you negative experiences, maybe they’re not for you? :d Maybe you should just give them up? :d
I wouldn’t want to put any effort into “squashing” any negative thoughts, I would just focus on creating more positive thoughts and seeing myself as a catch to women. See yourself as a person that has good experiences with women, that attractive women want to be with, that is more than worthy of them etc. etc. regardless of how awkward or untrue it feels at first.
Ask yourself, what would it be like to be a guy that’s attractive to gorgeous women? Who's already enough. How would that look like? How would you respond to them? How would people respond to you? Etc. etc.
Also what Cory mentions in his Magnetic Mindset program, when you wake up (or rather before sleeping) think first of something that makes you happy and/or that you’re grateful for and then go on a roll, see yourself meeting women, making them laugh, challenging them, whatever floats your boat and have fun with it, then just go about your day and keep seeing yourself as a catch.
If you need some inspiration you could always watch some RSD Infield to strengthen the belief that it’s also possible for you, easy etc.
Even if you do happen to get some “negative” experiences again, enjoy it and don’t take it or women that seriously
