04-21-2024, 10:10 PM
(04-21-2024, 09:19 PM)Topaz Wrote:(04-21-2024, 05:33 PM)Shannon Wrote: That only makes it even more important to do it now. The more you break up your run-throughs of AM, the less effective each one will be. And you seem to b choosing to focus on the women and the sex, not the things you need to do and achieve to make those women and sex a natural side effect. That is the classic mistake all the guys make who don't really understand what's what. Focus on women, and they will slip through your grasp. Focus on yourself, and women will naturally and automatically choose you. You will have to turn them down, and that will only make them want you more. Trust me... I speak from personal experience.
Man I didn't have even 1 lay on AM which is my biggest disappointment of the program so far. It could be because of other reasons.
Because I know a friend who did have some success on the last few stages because of the leading to SM.
Still nothing special you've been with one girl that's not a lot for him.
So for me personally
That means I didn't have sex for more than a 8-9 months now.
You understand the frustrating I hope...
Therefore maybe a better thing would be to do something like AOS or BIATBW for a month or two without SM before my next run with the hope of that momentum will be a helpful force into AM6
Or do you think I still rather just jump head-on after OPH to AM?
Suggestions?
Ask yourself what underlying belief that is causing you frustration due to not having had sex. For me, I've noticed that sex has worked as a validation, to feel like I'm worthy. When I didn't had sex for a while, this started to creep up on me. Working on the underlying issue has improved my well-being, and being able to feel self-worth without needing someone to have sex with me to feel it.
