07-06-2017, 06:48 AM
(07-06-2017, 12:22 AM)ichigo Wrote: Hey CatMan, the Rational Male books are good, but I'm not sure they're best going to serve you with where you are with women right now.
You have problems with trusting the nature of women. Reading the Rational Male books, although they're not wrong, they're not the books that are best going to serve you I believe. They're going to be useful for a guy who has the Disney princess version of the nature of women and needs some red pill, but I think you're already way over into the red pill with your thinking and so you don't need further reinforcement in that area. What do you think?
I think the following articles will help you: (you can only read 10 for free a month, so if you want to read more without paying you have to use a proxy or something)
These ones are on the nature of women:
-Will a nice car and good job get you laid? - http://www.girlschase.com/content/will-n...t-you-laid
-How to get comfortable with female sexuality - http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-ge...-sexuality
-Deep down, do women long for true love most of all? - http://www.girlschase.com/content/deep-d...e-most-all
-"Women are evil" - http://www.girlschase.com/content/women-are-evil
-Are all women slaves to hypergamy? - http://www.girlschase.com/content/are-al...-hypergamy
Once you're done with those, here's some that will help you with the current women from your social circle:
-How girls show interest - http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-gi...w-interest
-Why girls who like you reject you - http://www.girlschase.com/content/attain...reject-you
-Mixed signals from a girl - what these mean - http://www.girlschase.com/content/mixed-...these-mean
-Hotter women are subtler (and hook up less) - http://www.girlschase.com/content/hotter...-hook-less
-7 Reasons why all girls are naughty girls - http://www.girlschase.com/content/7-reas...ghty-girls
I've picked those ones out particularly for you and your situation. Read them slowly over a few days, let them digest, think about how they apply to your situation, and see how you feel.
I was a virgin until 25, and I know the fear that comes with losing your virginity. I lost mine because I got very drunk and my now girlfriend practically dragged me to her house and slept with me. I very nearly ducked out of meeting her that night, but I think the anti self-sabotage modules just tipped me over and it happened. I know it feels impossible, but it will happen for you too, just give it time. Read those articles. It will all start to click.
I highlighted the article that I think is an issue for DMSI users. Attainability.