09-25-2016, 07:15 AM
(09-25-2016, 05:23 AM)Sickologist Wrote: Ultimately, when you've banged enough girls, there's more healing in that than an internal mental and emotional process.
You'll have to bear with me -- this resistance is kicking my ass today and I'm having a hard time constructing sentences. Fingers are barely functioning.
Like I said, we're in agreement for about 99% of everything and I recognize that we all have our own paths. At this point, I'm just engaging in a thought experiment for those who are still "lost," or searching for a path to follow.
I was with you up until this part. I've banged a lot of bitches and the only thing I got better at was attracting bitches and banging them. Which was a lot of fun, I admit. That is, until I began to associate my self-worth with whether or not a woman wanted to sleep with me. Not to mention, the rage and disdain I had for them was extremely detrimental. The fact of the matter is:
My masculinity and self-worth is NOT defined by a women's bullshit, flighty, faulty sexual desire.
I want to be a self-actualized, well-rounded badass. If that means I have to sacrifice a few bangs here or there to find my own internal happiness, so be it. But I absolutely refuse to make my entire life about -- hell, I refuse to make 30% of my life about getting my dick wet. Women simply don't interest me that much outside of periodic companionship and yes, physical intimacy.
So yes, the idea that I can run a sub and it'll bring me emotional and mental peace and clarity ALONGSIDE increased attraction is very appealing to me.
For example, look at Dzemoo's recent post about the chick that asked "are you happy now" after having sex, when in the past, he'd be the one asking that question. If a woman posed that question to me, I'd pat her silly ass on the head, send her home and launch a new product -- making a couple of grand in the process.
Why? Because in the grand scheme of things, women ain't really shit. It's fun to get laid, but when I tell someone to take action, I mean in the gym. I mean with business. And yes, the occasional woman.
So yeah, definitely take action. Just don't neglect the power of self-development just because some people have a tendency to use that as a crutch. I use all my self-development to fuel my dreams.