(09-16-2016, 08:39 PM)Steven Wrote: @chaosvrgn
What are your thoughts about calling out #3 on her indifference towards you? (I wonder if you'd be the first.)
From a cost benefit analysis (which I use A LOT in my life, can't help it, I'm hyper logical), it'd be a total waste of time and it'd make me look like a snippy beta.
Calling her out shows that you care. And you care because you're pissed because she was your only option, which she'll see as confirmation that you're an unattractive beta and reaffirm her decision not to go out with you.
"K" is a dismissal. It's actually not as good as just ignoring her because there's STILL the tiniest bit of annoyance in it (which some women will perceive as beta), but most women will see it as disapproval. It also gives of the air of, "I can't be bothered with you, I'm too busy."
I know it's frustrating to deal with these kinds of women, but the BEST thing to do is minimize your investment to protect the downside. The reason why I said "K" is because truly don't care that much. I spent $57 on her. We hung out, made out, "petted," and I was going to be out socializing anyway on those days. I got my $57 worth out of her.
"Going off," unless she really deserves it (and you're in a long-term relationship) really screams, "I over-invested in you and I'm angry."