07-24-2016, 03:29 PM
(07-24-2016, 03:11 PM)K-Train Wrote: My statement was centered mainly on the belief/opinion that you NEED women to MAKE you happy. Of course I have the desire to sleep with, procreate with, and possibly even settle down with a woman but I don't want that to be the end all be all to achieving happiness for myself.
My life should already be good (for me). I should already be happy by myself. I should already be at 100% (or damn near close). A wonderful woman (or a woman in general) shouldn't be required for me to be 100%. She should boost what's already there. And I should have that same effect on her. I should be boosting what's already there within her. That's what I'm getting at. Sometimes I hear men say "I need a woman to complete me." For them, that's fine. For me, I want my spouse to AMPLIFY me.
We can agree to disagree though since you guys are pretty entrenched which is fine, I just prefer something different is all.
Yea we are all different. For me everything else is the boost, and everything else is to amplify, and the woman is half of the base and I'm the other half, and then together it's a whole, and then real happiness kicks in even if you're living under a rock, and then everything else on top of that is a bonus and amplifier. And just to be super super clear I'm not at all saying my view is right, or better, or anytihng, i'm just saying that's just how I am, we are all very different, it's just a bit upsetting when people tell me I shouldn't be like that and I should be the way they view things instead or say I shouldn't want a girl until I do abc first, like I don't care about impressing anyone whatsoever so a, b, & c don't mean a thing to me. I want a buffet of women until one sticks and then i want to build a beautiful life with her, though it will be a beautiful life before the building even starts, and then all the building will just be a bonus/amplifier to what's already perfect.
"If two or more agree" & "love under will" I think mean the same thing. Find your other half, and the two of you can and will happily build your dream lives together in complete bliss & happiness the whole time.