Shannon,
I want to make it clear the intention and content of this post is to get clarification and provide context for that clarification.
As I have been going back through my notes from v1 and v2.1 and recycling them, and reading posts, I noticed 2 topics I thought I should mention.
1) The Alien Stare or Close Encounters of the Awkward Kind: I think this was discussed a bit. Some women would look at me like I was from another planet or like I was speaking Akkadian. They would answer questions obtusely. (For example I asked one when the sale was going to end. Rather than giving me a specific date or saying that it was until all the clothes were gone, she said that the prices would never go up.) Others appeared detached, dissociated, disengaged, “on automatic pilot”, mentally checked out, spaced out, distant, void of emotion, emotionally vacant, or one of probably a dozen more words or phrases I could pick.
2) The “disappeared” or escape artists: They would become avoidant. I know that this has been discussed here as being possible ASD. Yes, I understand. She feels very sexual and escapes to get control of her emotions. This is why I know sexual arousal is not sufficient for sex for women. ASD or some other reason, the program goals cannot be fulfilled if the responder is being avoidant relative to the user.
Now since the inception of the new generation of DMSI started around the end of May 2016 or so, I realize that we are in the early stages of boldly going where no one has gone before, so I understand the program just needs more time. I also know there are healing and autopilot functions that should help. Even so, I wanted to ask while it is fresh on my mind:
a) Would you please give us some input as how to proceed if either of these barriers happen (Alien Stares and/or Escape Artistry)?
b) Is there anything in the v2.2 that could counteract these barriers to fulfilling the goals of the program? (Such as that in addition to the program's goal of the responders taking effective action to have sex with the user, that responders also feel comfortable or good about moving things forward in such a way to have sex with the user. In other words, as just one example, I'm wondering if activating positive emotional responses in the responders about their behavioral processes to fulfill the goals of the program with the user would help amplify effectiveness.)
I want to make it clear the intention and content of this post is to get clarification and provide context for that clarification.
As I have been going back through my notes from v1 and v2.1 and recycling them, and reading posts, I noticed 2 topics I thought I should mention.
1) The Alien Stare or Close Encounters of the Awkward Kind: I think this was discussed a bit. Some women would look at me like I was from another planet or like I was speaking Akkadian. They would answer questions obtusely. (For example I asked one when the sale was going to end. Rather than giving me a specific date or saying that it was until all the clothes were gone, she said that the prices would never go up.) Others appeared detached, dissociated, disengaged, “on automatic pilot”, mentally checked out, spaced out, distant, void of emotion, emotionally vacant, or one of probably a dozen more words or phrases I could pick.
2) The “disappeared” or escape artists: They would become avoidant. I know that this has been discussed here as being possible ASD. Yes, I understand. She feels very sexual and escapes to get control of her emotions. This is why I know sexual arousal is not sufficient for sex for women. ASD or some other reason, the program goals cannot be fulfilled if the responder is being avoidant relative to the user.
Now since the inception of the new generation of DMSI started around the end of May 2016 or so, I realize that we are in the early stages of boldly going where no one has gone before, so I understand the program just needs more time. I also know there are healing and autopilot functions that should help. Even so, I wanted to ask while it is fresh on my mind:
a) Would you please give us some input as how to proceed if either of these barriers happen (Alien Stares and/or Escape Artistry)?
b) Is there anything in the v2.2 that could counteract these barriers to fulfilling the goals of the program? (Such as that in addition to the program's goal of the responders taking effective action to have sex with the user, that responders also feel comfortable or good about moving things forward in such a way to have sex with the user. In other words, as just one example, I'm wondering if activating positive emotional responses in the responders about their behavioral processes to fulfill the goals of the program with the user would help amplify effectiveness.)