10-22-2016, 08:19 AM
Hey Shannon, just want to say I understand your frustration. It's never fun when others don't appreciate our efforts and expect the moon from us.
I just hope that you'll be able to use the legit reports (i.e. facts not whining) to craft DMSI into what it's meant to be.
To that end I read Banksy's post and I have to agree, with the exception of a few, all of the girls that approached me did so at times when I was shy, depressed, introverted.
I think people will do what they think they must, but no more than that, so if a girl thinks there's a chance you'll approach her, she might just leave it up to you. Why risk rejection if the guy will approach right?
On the other hand, if the girl knows it's up to her, she'll probably only do it if she feels that she can be in control of the seduction process, but there has to be a bit of uncontrollable element within the guy too or she'll see it as too easy.
Maybe if seducing and having sex with the user is a game or enigma that the girl plays with. Almost like a riddle or a cat with a ball of yarn.
So the accomplishment of sex with the user is the goal, but then, for whatever reason, it becomes a game of "how many times can I f*ck this guy?".
I dunno, just some thoughts. Hope they make sense, they're just preliminaries so not very thought out but I think it might be an angle.
Anyhow, hope you don't get too frustrated and, by all means, if people get too whiny, feel free to take time off working on DMSI. When I'm doing sales and people get rude, I immediately stop giving them attention and that either makes them stop, or I'm able to move on.
Either way, with all you've done and are doing, you don't deserve such ingratitude.
I just hope that you'll be able to use the legit reports (i.e. facts not whining) to craft DMSI into what it's meant to be.
To that end I read Banksy's post and I have to agree, with the exception of a few, all of the girls that approached me did so at times when I was shy, depressed, introverted.
I think people will do what they think they must, but no more than that, so if a girl thinks there's a chance you'll approach her, she might just leave it up to you. Why risk rejection if the guy will approach right?
On the other hand, if the girl knows it's up to her, she'll probably only do it if she feels that she can be in control of the seduction process, but there has to be a bit of uncontrollable element within the guy too or she'll see it as too easy.
Maybe if seducing and having sex with the user is a game or enigma that the girl plays with. Almost like a riddle or a cat with a ball of yarn.
So the accomplishment of sex with the user is the goal, but then, for whatever reason, it becomes a game of "how many times can I f*ck this guy?".
I dunno, just some thoughts. Hope they make sense, they're just preliminaries so not very thought out but I think it might be an angle.
Anyhow, hope you don't get too frustrated and, by all means, if people get too whiny, feel free to take time off working on DMSI. When I'm doing sales and people get rude, I immediately stop giving them attention and that either makes them stop, or I'm able to move on.
Either way, with all you've done and are doing, you don't deserve such ingratitude.