02-12-2016, 12:40 AM
"50 men, and made myself vulnerable and shared where i'm at in my journey, and what i struggle with"? Wow, I can imagine that must've been pretty great! Really sounding good.
"nice guy", but she said she was nervous about meeting you. The platonic type of "nice guy" you're thinking doesn't make women nervous. But of course still avoid being too boyfriendy so she won't associate you with that too much.
I am a nice guy as well, and I used to hate it when I thought I need to act like an asshole in order to not have women attach to me too much so I could continue happily dating whoever I please. You don't need to be like that, BUT you gotta have no shame/fear/quilt of being honest with her, and of dating multiple women. Having issues around those makes you become "closed" about them, which makes you avoid expression when they come up, which makes you possibly supplicate and/or lead them on, which makes for bad feelings for you both down the road. Ask me how I know. But sorry, not preaching, its just something that's been really clicking into place for me lately.
"nice guy", but she said she was nervous about meeting you. The platonic type of "nice guy" you're thinking doesn't make women nervous. But of course still avoid being too boyfriendy so she won't associate you with that too much.
I am a nice guy as well, and I used to hate it when I thought I need to act like an asshole in order to not have women attach to me too much so I could continue happily dating whoever I please. You don't need to be like that, BUT you gotta have no shame/fear/quilt of being honest with her, and of dating multiple women. Having issues around those makes you become "closed" about them, which makes you avoid expression when they come up, which makes you possibly supplicate and/or lead them on, which makes for bad feelings for you both down the road. Ask me how I know. But sorry, not preaching, its just something that's been really clicking into place for me lately.
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