03-30-2011, 08:38 PM
mat i would say yes it could but im not an expert.
In my first journal when i was using just different subs i used the flirt sub and it brought up one really bad experience in my childhood (i kneed a girl in the stomach with out thinking) At the time i thought i was hot Sh** and ended up in major trouble with the school and my mom. This had led me to believe that after that moment in my life i was outcast-ed by the rest of the kids and was scared to do anything with girls and women for fear of hurting them and experiencing more backlash. I realize now it was my own guilty conscious for never being able to apologize to her and forgiving my self for doing it and used it as an excuse to keep my heart frigid and not get close to people.
So i believe that past things can affect you and when your a kid defining your world and who you are as a person. negative acts can weigh you down. If i only knew and had subs/affirmations when i was younger my whole life out look would have been completely different.
All i can say for the girls showing you interest is if you like them enough to even strike up a conversation with them just tease them and treat them like your little sister that will ease any pressure you have on yourself for saying something perfect. Remember where all humans we all bleed red and make mistakes. if you do just laugh and move on.
You can do it Mat whether its now in the set or later on
In my first journal when i was using just different subs i used the flirt sub and it brought up one really bad experience in my childhood (i kneed a girl in the stomach with out thinking) At the time i thought i was hot Sh** and ended up in major trouble with the school and my mom. This had led me to believe that after that moment in my life i was outcast-ed by the rest of the kids and was scared to do anything with girls and women for fear of hurting them and experiencing more backlash. I realize now it was my own guilty conscious for never being able to apologize to her and forgiving my self for doing it and used it as an excuse to keep my heart frigid and not get close to people.
So i believe that past things can affect you and when your a kid defining your world and who you are as a person. negative acts can weigh you down. If i only knew and had subs/affirmations when i was younger my whole life out look would have been completely different.
All i can say for the girls showing you interest is if you like them enough to even strike up a conversation with them just tease them and treat them like your little sister that will ease any pressure you have on yourself for saying something perfect. Remember where all humans we all bleed red and make mistakes. if you do just laugh and move on.
You can do it Mat whether its now in the set or later on
