03-30-2011, 07:11 AM
(03-30-2011, 05:32 AM)spiralout1988 Wrote: Hey K-Train. You need to put yourself first. If you like this girl take some necessary steps to put both of you in the position to get things goin. If you really feel like you can be the better man for her then take her from the other guy. You can't worry about what the others think. It does take some balls to do it but open your heart and listen for the intuition.. if it tells you to go for it just go for it.
Also I had a buddy of mine that was crushing hard on this one chick. I was crushin hard on her too but I hung back because of my past needy behavior... i was trying some different ways of displaying my attraction towards women (this was almost 2 years ago) but anyways my buddy was working his game on her and they were always flirting and having very playful banter (online and real life) and all that and one night we were all partying anf this chick told my friend she loved him. I don't know exactly what my friend did but he got in his head and was like 'what does this mean??" cuz he never kissed her or held her hand or anything. My buddy is an interesting fellow too. He's got game, he's just dangerously immature. I think the next weekend he approached her with this whole needy mindset and did his usual thing were he gets comfortable with the women and gets them laughing and tries to kiss her and all this and she didn't want to. So if you approach something like this... do it with caution and without any expectations (like we've all learned).
Man.. I would love another shot at that girl.. she was my perfect woman.. If I could go back in time for any girl in my life it would be her.
Sometimes when girls say they love someone, it's not a romantic type of love. It's more they feel comfortable with them, they can be themselves with them and they feel safe. When he tried to kiss her, maybe she then felt unsafe? I'm wonder how their friendship went after that.
Also, why do you have to go back in time? Is she taken now? If not, look her up and don't play any games, just tell her you'd like to hang out and see if she's up for it.
If you're searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror!
