12-20-2015, 07:48 AM
(12-20-2015, 07:24 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(12-20-2015, 07:00 AM)Nox Wrote: I think that the bigger issue is that humans allow themselves t be controlled by behaviors and ideas. Porn is such a danger now a days because sexuality has become something that humans are able to be controlled through. I don't really think that there is anything wrong with porn if it is used to enhance your sexuality, but when you unknowingly or knowingly allow yourself to become addicted and controlled by it you're in trouble. Young people have a very hard time with this as they're still developing and I agre that they should not watch it. Some adults, through their upbringings, need some assistance in breaking down sexual walls and hang ups, and porn is one tool out of many that can be helpful in these instances if it's understood why they're using it. I'm not saying I think it's cool for people to sit home and masturbate all day, but if a man or woman have a hard time creating a healthy sexuality I say whatever works works.
I don't think that there are any real ultimate wrong or rights. A "wrong" thing can be used properly to create conditions for a right outcome. Sex, drugs, rock and roll, money, whatever. It isn't the tool that is bad, it's using the wrong tool in the wrong manner that creates undesirable outcomes. This is all hypothetical because whatever the issue or tool it's going to be almost Impossible to break cultural norms up enough to create this type of thinking on a large scale.
Porn gets such a bad rap, if there's any conspiracy, it's that.
Here are some facts for you:
- I started watching hardcore porn when i was 19.
- My youngest brother started watching when he was much younger
- I DON'T have a girlfriend, and can't seem to relate with women that well, though I AM getting better
- My youngest brother HAS a girlfriend, and can relate to women much better than I can.
So where are those arguments now?
It's just so stupid. People just want to blame things for their failures, that's all it is.
I watch porn too. Have been since I was like 10 and I don't ever plan on stopping. The no fap movement is a joke to me.
There's a bigger picture outside of myself though. It's all about the masses, it's all about the majority.
You may not be getting desensitized to the point where you'll rape someone, but other people are. You have no clue how the desensitization of the youth now is going to affect the future. I don't know either, but I can picture it, but I know a lot, and I never learned a lot to try to feel cool or feel like I know more than most people, it's just how I am. I study stuff and I don't stop. I can't help it if other people haven't been through what I have. Porn is just one itsy bitsy piece to the puzzle, kids are getting desensitized by so much at such a young age and these kids are going to grow up and have kids, and those kids are going to get the super fuc*ing extreme desensitization because their going to get desensitized by a generation that was already desensitized and it's the snowball affect and sh*t can get bad, FAST.
It's all about the masses not the individuals.
That's enough on this subject for me though, like I said at the start this kind of talk only leads to people talking sh*t out of ignorance.