12-20-2015, 07:24 AM
(12-20-2015, 07:00 AM)Nox Wrote: I think that the bigger issue is that humans allow themselves t be controlled by behaviors and ideas. Porn is such a danger now a days because sexuality has become something that humans are able to be controlled through. I don't really think that there is anything wrong with porn if it is used to enhance your sexuality, but when you unknowingly or knowingly allow yourself to become addicted and controlled by it you're in trouble. Young people have a very hard time with this as they're still developing and I agre that they should not watch it. Some adults, through their upbringings, need some assistance in breaking down sexual walls and hang ups, and porn is one tool out of many that can be helpful in these instances if it's understood why they're using it. I'm not saying I think it's cool for people to sit home and masturbate all day, but if a man or woman have a hard time creating a healthy sexuality I say whatever works works.
I don't think that there are any real ultimate wrong or rights. A "wrong" thing can be used properly to create conditions for a right outcome. Sex, drugs, rock and roll, money, whatever. It isn't the tool that is bad, it's using the wrong tool in the wrong manner that creates undesirable outcomes. This is all hypothetical because whatever the issue or tool it's going to be almost Impossible to break cultural norms up enough to create this type of thinking on a large scale.
Porn gets such a bad rap, if there's any conspiracy, it's that.
Here are some facts for you:
- I started watching hardcore porn when i was 19.
- My youngest brother started watching when he was much younger
- I DON'T have a girlfriend, and can't seem to relate with women that well, though I AM getting better
- My youngest brother HAS a girlfriend, and can relate to women much better than I can.
So where are those arguments now?
It's just so stupid. People just want to blame things for their failures, that's all it is.
