03-15-2011, 10:29 PM
(03-14-2011, 05:05 AM)Patti Wrote: I forgot where I was going with my previous post last night, I was exhausted and my bed was calling my name lol. I do believe when you look into someone's eyes, you can see into their soul and visa-versa. So if that's true, could the reason we look away is because we don't want someone to "see" the real us? And when I say real, I mean all the bad we can't hide from ourselves. Then, maybe the subs help us to release that bad or at least the negative feelings of it, so that we feel better to show our soul off! That's my take on it but who knows.
That's goes a lot deeper than I was thinking, but that could be it on some subconscious level. Or maybe we're just not used to having someone's full attention like that focused right in. I don't feel like I'm hiding something, but my guess is that it's like being put on the spot and makes people self conscious? Maybe it varies from person to person. Thanks for you thoughts!