All our problems are rooted in fear

[apollolux]

And all the guys telling you that they are attracting women effortlessly are lying to you, you only atract women effortlessly if you are extremly good looking, famous or rich or extremly passionate about your life and strongly believe in yourself

Even then, it's still not enough to be extremely passionate about your life or strongly believe in yourself. Women in general (especially those who perceive themselves as high status) seem to have certain unrealistic expectations without being willing to do the work to earn what they think they deserve.