08-13-2015, 11:44 PM
(08-13-2015, 05:52 AM)Minititan Wrote:
I have a few women whom either don't want to speak to me or next minute won't leave me alone. It is strange territory. Maybe because I am not out as much this time round so less alcohol infused relations. after stage 4 I go back to university should be interesting to see how things have changed as I started sex magnet just prior to the summer exams.
Work is an ever changing spiral of confusion. Working in retail gives you an interesting perspective and I have noticed subtle changes towards me over the 3 stages. Yesterday was day 1 of stage 4, I politely refused a request of a female customer and boom I must have hit her Mr. Hyde switch, she threw her goods at me and started screaming the building down. Is this the beginning of the craziness I had last time, where rejecting a women's request always ended up in a crazy display of anger and frustration. Haha I hope so, Atleast then I will know I'm continuing down that old path.
Irrational behavior from a woman is attraction to me. Why would she gets angry like that when you did nothing wrong?
It will be hard for a lot of women to admit that they are madly attracted to you. It took 2 months to a girl I know to recognize that she loves the way I behave. But most of the time she says she hates it but with a voice tone which says the opposite or she behave in a way that tells me she loves me (holding hand, looking for comfort, touching me with her foot). She even screamed in a public place, she told me she hates the way I was standing relaxed, the way I mocked her when she says something stupid. I was in fact glad when she told me all that because I knew what it meant but I didn't fully realized it at first. The worst thing you can do is to think she actually hates you when in fact it's the opposite.
I like to compare it with poker, even if you have the bad cards you can still win if you believe you can and sometimes the guys in front of you have even worst cards than you. The bad cards are the false hates she gives you but if you still believe she is attracted to you then you will win the pot.
A woman who behaves irrationally when she is around you mean she is attracted (most of the time). Some will never admit it or it will take months. Don't expect all girls to tell you she is made in love at first sight. Some will say that but some will react very strangely around you. They will hate you publicly but love you secretly. The more a girls react to you the better, even if it seems like hate, most of the time it's not, especially when you did nothing wrong logically. Most of time I get upset when a girl react like that but later I realized they were attracted.
