Absolute Self Confidence

[waahbeta]

I've been listening to ASC since last 10 days.
Finally got a chance to test it out.
My friend threw a birthday party for her gf in a club.
We were somewhat 65 ppl. Girls were around 35 and 30 boys.
The best thing was except the birthday gal, rest most were single.
But unfortunately, I couldn't talk to any1.
Even the boys. I knew 10-15 of them. They were my friends. All were dancing on the floor, i to wanted too. But i couldn't. They did pull me in couple of times, but I came back n took a seat next to bar counter.
The funniest part, I was meeting his GF first time and I didn't even have the confidence to wish her birthday.
So finally realising, m still not confident, I kept sitting on the counter. I noticed a girl, my friends friend. She was damn damn cute. I liked her instantly. She was 3 seats away sitting alone just like me. My friend did intro me to her later. Wen her frnds tried to pull her in, she said she dsnt like dancing. 'Bingo I got a company.' I thought to myself.
But later on, even she went to dance n danced like hell.
Lol. N i was still sitting there.
Finally she came back n sat next to me. She asked me why m I not dancing. I replied I don't like (an excuse). She replied that even she dint like but yet she is dancing. I wanted to say something, but I couldn't. I gave a fake half smile n left from there.

So the thing is even though m 10 days into ASC,, m still not socially confident.
N there's no other effect I noticed.

If your coming from a background of very low confidence, which it does sound that way from what you have said here then 10 days is nowhere near long enough, 30 days is more like it and that is to consciously see results forming not completion. When I run ASC I will be running it for a minimum 3 to 6 months. good luck with ASC and keep it up, It will Work.

no. no. m confident but its the sovia confidence I need .its the introversion I wanna manage at best.