05-06-2010, 11:08 AM
UPDATE
So, today is day 25. I've been playing the sub MP3 all night, every night for 25 nights.
I have to say, I'm a little discouraged. My gains in erectile quality feel minor to me. Here's where I'm at:
PROS
- I get intermittent erections when passionately kissing my girl
- I am hard enough for penetration
- I stay more or less hard for the duration of sex
- I am having sex without drugs! (cialis/viagra)
CONS
- I'm not rock solid hard except for brief passing moments early in intercourse
- go soft with condom
- when not with my girl, at best a semi-erection
- no morning wood
- no stirring/swelling when I see sexy women in public
Although I am happy with the developments on the PROS list, I wonder if these aren't the natural results of:
1) Quitting porn
2) No masturbation (I tried taking Andrew's advice and continued to masturbate (without porn) but found any masturbation made it difficult to get it up when with my girl so I stopped and found my penis much more responsive with her after abstaining.)
3) Stopping dependence on pills for erections and winging it, hoping I could get it up.
In other words, I wonder if the sub is having any effect of its own. It's hard to say. (these puns are inescapable..)
What I've been wondering is whether my speakers are broadcasting the silent, high-frequency signal. I double checked my system and my Altec Lansing InMotion3 claims Frequency response: 60Hz to 20 kHz so I should be okay in that respect.
Never the less, I am switching to headphones for the sub. I'll listen for the first hour or so of sleep, until I find them uncomfortable, then I'll switch to the speakers.
My goal is to have ROCK SOLID erections easily and naturally and often. So, though my results are something, I was hoping for more after listening to the sub for this long. However, I should say that I am grateful for my progress so far, and I'll stick with it and keep a good attitude about this process.
I'll keep posting results.
**also worth mentioning again: Absolutely no interest in porn. A strange, perhaps unrelated benefit. But I am loving that development.
So, today is day 25. I've been playing the sub MP3 all night, every night for 25 nights.
I have to say, I'm a little discouraged. My gains in erectile quality feel minor to me. Here's where I'm at:
PROS
- I get intermittent erections when passionately kissing my girl
- I am hard enough for penetration
- I stay more or less hard for the duration of sex
- I am having sex without drugs! (cialis/viagra)
CONS
- I'm not rock solid hard except for brief passing moments early in intercourse
- go soft with condom
- when not with my girl, at best a semi-erection
- no morning wood
- no stirring/swelling when I see sexy women in public
Although I am happy with the developments on the PROS list, I wonder if these aren't the natural results of:
1) Quitting porn
2) No masturbation (I tried taking Andrew's advice and continued to masturbate (without porn) but found any masturbation made it difficult to get it up when with my girl so I stopped and found my penis much more responsive with her after abstaining.)
3) Stopping dependence on pills for erections and winging it, hoping I could get it up.
In other words, I wonder if the sub is having any effect of its own. It's hard to say. (these puns are inescapable..)
What I've been wondering is whether my speakers are broadcasting the silent, high-frequency signal. I double checked my system and my Altec Lansing InMotion3 claims Frequency response: 60Hz to 20 kHz so I should be okay in that respect.
Never the less, I am switching to headphones for the sub. I'll listen for the first hour or so of sleep, until I find them uncomfortable, then I'll switch to the speakers.
My goal is to have ROCK SOLID erections easily and naturally and often. So, though my results are something, I was hoping for more after listening to the sub for this long. However, I should say that I am grateful for my progress so far, and I'll stick with it and keep a good attitude about this process.
I'll keep posting results.
**also worth mentioning again: Absolutely no interest in porn. A strange, perhaps unrelated benefit. But I am loving that development.
