04-19-2015, 12:30 PM
Listening Time: 14 hours
Today, I had a great revelation. And I have to credit AM6 for helping me to awaken my eyes to this new truth.
For a long time, when it came down to women, I always thought a man has to create attraction in order for a woman to be interested in him. Before subs, I have read about how men have to develop chemistry in a women in order for there to be any romantic/sexual interest from the them in order to take things further. For a long time, I would apply these concepts out in the real world and would get frustrated virtually every time because I would constantly be asking myself "Does this girl really like me" or "Am I really attractive to this girl", only to find out later on that I shot myself in the foot because there may have been attraction on her end, but my self-doubt sabotaged it all. Now, I realized I have completely went about it the wrong way.
When it comes down to attraction, you have to ASSUME attraction is already there rather than create it. Attraction is really about how you frame your mind into reality. When you're trying to create attraction, you can easily hurt your chances because you're looking for a certain outcome from women and are basing all of your behaviors and tactics into that one outcome. You're constantly questioning your mind on whether a woman likes your advances or not, which can start to create self-doubt and make the situation worse than it was beforehand. If you don't know your self-worth and value, you'll constantly be questioning in your interactions if the girl really likes you or not. Because of that, you're not putting your true self out there and will virtually get no where with women except for the friend-zone.
When you assume attraction, it changes the whole dynamic of how you think and interact. You're no longer questioning whether a girl likes you or not, and you can be more direct and confident in how you interact. Your body language will change, you'll be less in your head and more in the moment, and your vibe will be so confident that, on a subconscious level, women will be attracted to you. Now keep in mind, not every girl is going to be attracted to you even if you assume she is attracted to you. But by assuming attraction, you can easily weed out women who aren't attracted to you and women who are. Because for the women who are attracted to you, they're going to be receptive of your direct advances and allow you to take the lead as an Alpha Male should. You'll easily notice how fun and easy it is when a woman who likes you goes along with your advances because you already assumed she liked you in the first place.
Now how does this apply to my life? Lately whenever I look at myself in the mirror, I can't help but smile big because I say to myself, "Man if I was a girl, I'd be very attracted to this guy I'm looking at". Slowly but surely, that same mindset started to apply to reality when I hangout with my Japanese friends and the girls that are there. When I'm interacting with the girls, my mind would constantly say things like,
She wants me
She's really into me
This girl really likes me a lot
This girl finds me attractive
This girl can't help but like me
She thinks I'm hot
She thinks I'm cute
She thinks I'm cool, funny, etc.
As you can see, by assuming attraction, it is nothing but positive thoughts in my head and my mind and body adjust to this frame of mind. Then it starts to be projecting into reality and that is when I start to noticing a change in their behaviors. Most of the girls have been very receptive to my advances and really like being around me. This past weekend, I asked one of the Japanese girls out on a date because I assumed she really likes me. And, lo and behold, she instantly said yes. All of this by just assuming a girl is really attracted to me.
Like I said, this won't guarantee a girl actually likes you every single time. You will have girls who reject your advances, but that's OK because at least that weeds her out from being compatible with you. And even if you interact with her again later on, by still assuming she's attracted to you, things could change overtime. But the most important thing to remember is, always assume attraction, never try to create it.
Shannon, I can't thank you enough for this AM6 sub. These changes happening within me have been nothing but life-changing. Definitely looking forward to the last two stages coming up.
Today, I had a great revelation. And I have to credit AM6 for helping me to awaken my eyes to this new truth.
For a long time, when it came down to women, I always thought a man has to create attraction in order for a woman to be interested in him. Before subs, I have read about how men have to develop chemistry in a women in order for there to be any romantic/sexual interest from the them in order to take things further. For a long time, I would apply these concepts out in the real world and would get frustrated virtually every time because I would constantly be asking myself "Does this girl really like me" or "Am I really attractive to this girl", only to find out later on that I shot myself in the foot because there may have been attraction on her end, but my self-doubt sabotaged it all. Now, I realized I have completely went about it the wrong way.
When it comes down to attraction, you have to ASSUME attraction is already there rather than create it. Attraction is really about how you frame your mind into reality. When you're trying to create attraction, you can easily hurt your chances because you're looking for a certain outcome from women and are basing all of your behaviors and tactics into that one outcome. You're constantly questioning your mind on whether a woman likes your advances or not, which can start to create self-doubt and make the situation worse than it was beforehand. If you don't know your self-worth and value, you'll constantly be questioning in your interactions if the girl really likes you or not. Because of that, you're not putting your true self out there and will virtually get no where with women except for the friend-zone.
When you assume attraction, it changes the whole dynamic of how you think and interact. You're no longer questioning whether a girl likes you or not, and you can be more direct and confident in how you interact. Your body language will change, you'll be less in your head and more in the moment, and your vibe will be so confident that, on a subconscious level, women will be attracted to you. Now keep in mind, not every girl is going to be attracted to you even if you assume she is attracted to you. But by assuming attraction, you can easily weed out women who aren't attracted to you and women who are. Because for the women who are attracted to you, they're going to be receptive of your direct advances and allow you to take the lead as an Alpha Male should. You'll easily notice how fun and easy it is when a woman who likes you goes along with your advances because you already assumed she liked you in the first place.
Now how does this apply to my life? Lately whenever I look at myself in the mirror, I can't help but smile big because I say to myself, "Man if I was a girl, I'd be very attracted to this guy I'm looking at". Slowly but surely, that same mindset started to apply to reality when I hangout with my Japanese friends and the girls that are there. When I'm interacting with the girls, my mind would constantly say things like,
She wants me
She's really into me
This girl really likes me a lot
This girl finds me attractive
This girl can't help but like me
She thinks I'm hot
She thinks I'm cute
She thinks I'm cool, funny, etc.
As you can see, by assuming attraction, it is nothing but positive thoughts in my head and my mind and body adjust to this frame of mind. Then it starts to be projecting into reality and that is when I start to noticing a change in their behaviors. Most of the girls have been very receptive to my advances and really like being around me. This past weekend, I asked one of the Japanese girls out on a date because I assumed she really likes me. And, lo and behold, she instantly said yes. All of this by just assuming a girl is really attracted to me.
Like I said, this won't guarantee a girl actually likes you every single time. You will have girls who reject your advances, but that's OK because at least that weeds her out from being compatible with you. And even if you interact with her again later on, by still assuming she's attracted to you, things could change overtime. But the most important thing to remember is, always assume attraction, never try to create it.
Shannon, I can't thank you enough for this AM6 sub. These changes happening within me have been nothing but life-changing. Definitely looking forward to the last two stages coming up.
"People gonna talk about you, whether you doing good or bad. So go and be about your business."
- JJ54
"Ever since I was a child I have had this instinctive urge for expansion and growth. To me, the function and duty of a quality human being is the sincere and honest development of one’s potential."
- Bruce Lee
- JJ54
"Ever since I was a child I have had this instinctive urge for expansion and growth. To me, the function and duty of a quality human being is the sincere and honest development of one’s potential."
- Bruce Lee
