04-17-2015, 03:22 AM
Not a one of us who has done alpha male or female made these changes without having to learn how to walk in the new shoes of being alpha. And it's not like you're born knowing how. You have to figure it out. You have to make the effort, see how you could have done it better or differently, and learn from it and improve. It takes time, and the fact that you're making this journey is a great sign. It means you really are growing and becoming a self-leader who has self respect and self esteem and self worth, and who refuses to be walked on or pushed around.
Yes, it's awkward at first, but you'll learn to walk in these new shoes and then eventually run. And some day, you'll even learn how to make them grow wings and fly! Don't be hard on yourself for not knowing all of how to do it just yet. And don't feel self conscious for it either. We all have to start at the beginning, and we all have to figure it out with legs that are wobbly at first.
Welcome to the beginning of your journey. And welcome to the alpha club. :-)
Yes, it's awkward at first, but you'll learn to walk in these new shoes and then eventually run. And some day, you'll even learn how to make them grow wings and fly! Don't be hard on yourself for not knowing all of how to do it just yet. And don't feel self conscious for it either. We all have to start at the beginning, and we all have to figure it out with legs that are wobbly at first.
Welcome to the beginning of your journey. And welcome to the alpha club. :-)
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!