Sadly, when you begin to grow, you will find that two things become apparent.
First, you're now going to have to shift to a new circle of acquaintances, because the old ones don't fit anymore; and second, most people not only don't want to grow, they enjoy being at their current level of misery so much that they will fight tooth and nail to preserve it.
There is always a first in every group to realize they are unhappy being stagnant, and do something to fix it. Part of that growth is the transition process from being part of that stagnant group to part of something else, possibly a group that is growing or possibly going it alone. Not always fun or easy, but when growth is necessary, that is the result.
I believe the growth is still much more than worthwhile, however.
First, you're now going to have to shift to a new circle of acquaintances, because the old ones don't fit anymore; and second, most people not only don't want to grow, they enjoy being at their current level of misery so much that they will fight tooth and nail to preserve it.
There is always a first in every group to realize they are unhappy being stagnant, and do something to fix it. Part of that growth is the transition process from being part of that stagnant group to part of something else, possibly a group that is growing or possibly going it alone. Not always fun or easy, but when growth is necessary, that is the result.
I believe the growth is still much more than worthwhile, however.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
