02-17-2015, 02:53 PM
(02-17-2015, 11:56 AM)Shannon Wrote: A lot of guys don't understand that sex is a very intimate thing for a woman, because she is receiving him inside herself, because it makes her physically and emotionally vulnerable, and because it puts her at risk of disease or pregnancy. Younger guys, especially these days, tend to view sex as if everyone were male. Males are given the freedom, and indeed, expected to, have sex at the drop of a hat. Sex is usually a much different matter and experience for a man than a woman, given that he has the freedom to do this and she is expected to abide by a long list of rules and regulations. There are more than 134 different things a woman considers before having sex, but for men, it's more likely to be "Will this get my ass kicked?" and "Is it hard yet?" Male pattern blindness makes for an assumption that everyone is playing on the same field, by the same rules, and the same game. Guys, that's not the case. Her stating her case and sticking to what she believes doesn't make her close-minded. It means she has a different point of view than you do. Not everyone will think like you, in either direction.
Finally someone who actually gets it. More reason for me to stick around since you know what you are doing and are not blind to the fact that men and women are different. It was getting frustrating because I honestly have never dealed with guys who knew SO LITTLE about ( the average ) women and truelly think that we feel about sex or crave sex in the same way. Usually sex isnt running through your mind all day long which might be the case for men. ( atleast thats the impression im getting. ) And alot of women crave romance above sex and having sex in a short period of time with a stranger is anything but romantic and make women feel cheap. 
And yes I probably think more about dinner, sleeping and buying new make up than I think about having sex. ( ow no, what a shock! )
Obviously easy clubbing girls make guys go blind...
But believing every girl thinks like them is like me saying that
every guy wants to be a gentleman. Nope.
