16/08/14
(Probably would be fine to journal in family/work safe but moved it here just in case.)
Hi.
I quite like this idea of journalling about our experiences with using the subliminals from here. I have a few and will get some more but I want to journal about my experiences so far.
Be a magnet to attractive, handsome men and Overcome approach anxiety for women.
Well, I have only been listening to these for a
few days but right from the first or second day I
HAVE noticed subtle changes. What I mean by
that is, guys in the street making eye contact
with me, but looking relaxed and I've smiled and
they've smiled back. It used to be they would
look scared but now I am noticing looks of
interest from some guys, even some good looking
ones and the smiling back.
I have even smiled a couple of times at a guy, realized then he was with a girl, he has smiled back then attention back to her but instead of me feeling guilty or afraid of causing a scene and getting in trouble, it's been a brief, pleasant interaction. I'm not yet confident enough to talk to guys, to initiate that, but it's a good start. and definitely an improvement!
As it has been, I am someone who has been doing well with online dating, I manifested that, YAY! but can be quite shy to talk to guys in the street, for example and some guys in this city seem quite shy.
I have a bit of a concern that if I DO crack this and I can approach guys and start conversations, will they assume I am "easy" or only want sex or will it help increase my pool of guys available to me to also include the shyer types who might WANT to move a little slower.
But I decided recently to experiment with all this and if I don't like the changes, I'm sure I can change back. There's also all this stuff I've read on most dating forums about letting guys approach me but it sometimes feels like why SHOULD I be so restricted JUST because of my gender.
I'm hoping overcoming my approach anxiety will open up more choices for me. Anyway, it's fun to experiment.
I'm very very fussy and only find about 10% of guys attractive and it will be interesting to see what changes happen with the one on attractive men. Lots of subs here interest me and step by step, I look forward to exploring! Anyway, that's my results so far with those two.
(Probably would be fine to journal in family/work safe but moved it here just in case.)
Hi.
I quite like this idea of journalling about our experiences with using the subliminals from here. I have a few and will get some more but I want to journal about my experiences so far.
Be a magnet to attractive, handsome men and Overcome approach anxiety for women.
Well, I have only been listening to these for a
few days but right from the first or second day I
HAVE noticed subtle changes. What I mean by
that is, guys in the street making eye contact
with me, but looking relaxed and I've smiled and
they've smiled back. It used to be they would
look scared but now I am noticing looks of
interest from some guys, even some good looking
ones and the smiling back.
I have even smiled a couple of times at a guy, realized then he was with a girl, he has smiled back then attention back to her but instead of me feeling guilty or afraid of causing a scene and getting in trouble, it's been a brief, pleasant interaction. I'm not yet confident enough to talk to guys, to initiate that, but it's a good start. and definitely an improvement!
As it has been, I am someone who has been doing well with online dating, I manifested that, YAY! but can be quite shy to talk to guys in the street, for example and some guys in this city seem quite shy.
I have a bit of a concern that if I DO crack this and I can approach guys and start conversations, will they assume I am "easy" or only want sex or will it help increase my pool of guys available to me to also include the shyer types who might WANT to move a little slower.
But I decided recently to experiment with all this and if I don't like the changes, I'm sure I can change back. There's also all this stuff I've read on most dating forums about letting guys approach me but it sometimes feels like why SHOULD I be so restricted JUST because of my gender.
I'm hoping overcoming my approach anxiety will open up more choices for me. Anyway, it's fun to experiment.
I'm very very fussy and only find about 10% of guys attractive and it will be interesting to see what changes happen with the one on attractive men. Lots of subs here interest me and step by step, I look forward to exploring! Anyway, that's my results so far with those two.