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[JackOfHearts]

Most men are judgy that's why they don't even want to get serious, thinking a girl is a ***** because she have sex on the first night.
It depends on the social conditioning, if there was none you would do it the sooner.

And it is because of this labeling, name calling, beliefs that stop women from having sex with a man too soon. If the men that got lucky kept their thoughts to themselves and the women that are calling her names kept their thoughts to themselves. More women would be having sex.

History shows when young male Americans went to Europe in WW1 and WW2. They easily got laid because they didn't have the social stigma holding them back.

Trust me, Its not just that. I personally wouldnt even want to date a guy who thinks its necessary to have sex only a few days after meeting.
Sex shouldnt be the most important thing and if he cannot wait a bit it sounds like the guy has no control. What if the girl goes on a trip with a group of female friends or maybe her family? She should just let him cheat caus he cant handle a few days or weeks without sex? It also makes a girl feel like she is just a piece of meat because everything else about her isnt good enough to make him stay.
Im not saying she should torture him by waiting forever or untill marriage ( what a horror ) but if a guy wants to get in your pants in a few days or even weeks it sounds like they JUST want to get into your pants...
Its not just about what other people think... thats just a small part of it.
Of course im speaking for myself, pretty sure there are enough women out there who dont give a damn and sleep around as if its a handshake.
But yeah Im not really a party girl.

You don't see my point here. You clearly didn't understand what I said. it's normal if you are used to think like that for a long time. Stay rational for moment, put your feeling aside for a second. I'm sure when you read my text above you jump on your feeling which is normal but put them aside for second.
It's all about belief. Change country for example where they have a complete different belief like Scandinavia. Sex is not a big deal for them over there.

Another way to look at it would be if you would make a big deal for just kissing a guy. Say you would wait 7 days to see if the guy is worth it before kissing. The man would think this girl is crazy for doing such a thing. Sex is no bigger or lesser than kissing a girl, it's a part of the relationship to me. Your belief about sex doesn't meet reality, it's a dream, a dream that come from TV.

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Trust me, Its not just that. I personally wouldn't even want to date a guy who thinks its necessary to have sex only a few days after meeting." Do you think it would be necessary to kiss a guy in a relationship? How would you react if a man would tell you that he doesn't kiss a girl on the first 10 days?

If you read carefully what I said I didn't mean it was necessary but that it was a natural thing to do. Just as simple as that. Too much unnecessary belief is added to sex. You still have some country where people see sex as natural, they weren't conditioned by media, religion, etc. To me they are much more healthy as a result, they would think the occidental country are crazy to think that way. That's where you have to study your feeling carefully because they are linked to your belief. Compare the 2 belief system and tell me logically which system seems more practical and healthy.