02-16-2015, 08:47 AM
(02-16-2015, 08:15 AM)orange blossom Wrote:(02-16-2015, 07:50 AM)FREAK4LIFE Wrote:If it was an idol of mine, sure. But I would KNOW it would be a one time thing and just about sex. I dont expect to get serious with them.(02-16-2015, 06:48 AM)orange blossom Wrote:(02-16-2015, 02:51 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:Trust me, Its not just that. I personally wouldnt even want to date a guy who thinks its necessary to have sex only a few days after meeting.(02-16-2015, 02:35 AM)maniac360 Wrote: Most men are judgy that's why they don't even want to get serious, thinking a girl is a ***** because she have sex on the first night.
It depends on the social conditioning, if there was none you would do it the sooner.
And it is because of this labeling, name calling, beliefs that stop women from having sex with a man too soon. If the men that got lucky kept their thoughts to themselves and the women that are calling her names kept their thoughts to themselves. More women would be having sex.
History shows when young male Americans went to Europe in WW1 and WW2. They easily got laid because they didn't have the social stigma holding them back.
Sex shouldnt be the most important thing and if he cannot wait a bit it sounds like the guy has no control. What if the girl goes on a trip with a group of female friends or maybe her family? She should just let him cheat caus he cant handle a few days or weeks without sex? It also makes a girl feel like she is just a piece of meat because everything else about her isnt good enough to make him stay.
Im not saying she should torture him by waiting forever or untill marriage ( what a horror ) but if a guy wants to get in your pants in a few days or even weeks it sounds like they JUST want to get into your pants...
Its not just about what other people think... thats just a small part of it.
Of course im speaking for myself, pretty sure there are enough women out there who dont give a damn and sleep around as if its a handshake.
But yeah Im not really a party girl.
What if a really high value guy like Johnny depp or Leonardo di caprio offered sex at that very moment to you and it was the only chance you were going to get?
I know the chances of that are surely hypothetical but would you be coming from the same frames that you described above or would you jump at the thought of having sex with those guys since you were never going to get a chance like that in your life ever again?
Ok if not those guys then whatever other guys that you think are "hot guys" i.e high value men that have hordes of women to choose from.
But I dont see the point in doing this with other guys when I am actually looking for a real relationship.
Trust me, if you are a girl and you are easy with guys it will be a one time thing and after that they act like you are garbage and they move to another girl.
Maybe if you are ridiculously good looking they might call you again but if you are a 5 they wont even look at you again.
Im not sure what goes on in your guys mind because this is the only place were guys claim they still like a girl after early sex...
I dont need sex with random strangers, if I wanted to I could... its not hard for a girl at all.
Wake up guys, this whole "I would still like girls after sex" thing only works for pretty girls.
What does it even mean when you say a "real" relationship? S
Surely I would hope to think people were not going around looking for a "fake" relationship!