Attractive

[JackOfHearts]

Re:

"I can't speak for all men... however, I believe the men that would like to be irresistibly attractive to beautiful women goal would be to have sex with the beautiful women they attracted. Maybe it is to be seen with a beautiful woman at all times. Maybe they just love the attention from a beautiful woman. And other reasons I may not have thought of..."

I am curious about this...sorry to "hijack" a bit. I have been going through a stage of attracting men a lot more but a lot of them wanted to have sex with me & I was never sure is that an insult or a compliment, I mean I thought it meant they thought I was so ugly they ONLY wanted sex and not to date me? Have I been seeing this the "wrong" way?
(Some wanted to date me too, of course :-) )

It depends on who the guy is. Some man are so desperate that they would just have sex with anybody, as if sex would be a cure for them.

To ask if the girl want sex if not a good idea. Because society view sex as bad, girl will avoid the subject just to appear as pure as white. Best way to go for it would be to escalate without saying anything, just acting till she is ready. Sure some woman will say yes but it will be more easier to just go for it like it just happen out of nowhere.

As for dating, I think a relationship without any sex is doom to fail or to be lacking something. If I would date a girl that would be stuck on her mind that she can't love a man and fu** him too at the same time then I would leave. That's what most guy are thinking in this forum. That's what I read and heard from countless pick/up/guru/naturals/high value man.

As an advice for female it's trickier because it's the man who is suppose to act. What a woman can do is more subtle. Usually the more "attractive/high value" a woman is the more the man would get stuck in his mind thinking "this woman is so great that I can't have sex with her, she is too pure". It's actually how I was behaving unconsciously when I approach a very beautiful girl a week ago.

What a high value man would do is have sex with her at least in a ~7 day period that he met her. Even if she is very attractive. This 7 day period can change depending on circumstance and country, in some big town some guys use a 3 days period.

I think it would be better for you to view sex as just sex: a way to have fun. If you feel you can trust the guy, he is worthy enough to you then have sex with him should be natural. If the sex is good, it will make you more connected and as a result make dating much more easier/fun.

A lot of man make the mistake of viewing sex as impure too. So when they meet a very beautiful woman they are stuck, they just date. Usually the woman will get bored, not knowing why, feeling that this guy is not worth it.

Then you will see some man complain that female are evil because they wanted sex and the "nice/evangelic" man was pure because it didn't wanted any sex. I saw that recently on my facebook, the guy said that. I was thinking like that too before. It's social conditional, man are educated the wrong way. They think girl don't enjoy sex, that they can live without it.