01-09-2015, 02:07 PM
Listening Time: 12 hours
Today was my first day back at work since winter break. I work as a tutor at a public high school. I was friendly if I wanted to, but I noticed I mainly kept to myself by either reading some of the alpha/sigma books on my phone or check up on the forums here (definitely addicting lol). As far as interactions from others, the faculty were very warming to me while the students were hits and misses. I had one interesting event where I went to a classroom to thank a young teacher for helping me with my cover letter over the break. She's fairly young, late 20's, and cute in her own way. When talking to her, I could sense some tension in the air. I myself was calm and collected, but I could sense she was looking at me differently than before. Our interaction was brief as I had to leave, but I'm sure I'll be seeing her again during the semester.
Meanwhile, I heard back from the arena football team. Unfortunately, my class schedule conflicted with their working schedule. So I won't be able to intern with them during the semester. However, they would love for me to come in during the summer once I'm done with school. The opportunity is there, just need to seize it. In fact, I'll have to speak with their faculty next week on possibly volunteering some time when I'm available during school.
Also, will be hanging out with my female friend on tomorrow evening. I noticed with my text messages with her, I've been very assertive in what we were going to do tomorrow. And surprisingly, no resistance from her at all. Before the subs, I would only be suggestive when I interact with girls and the plans usually falls apart because of it. It's like I let the girls make the decision of where to go, rather than me. Since the subs, I've been brunt and make my assertions clear on what I wanted to do. So far, it's working smoothly. Good thing is, if we hang out tomorrow, I'm going in with no expectations. Whatever happens, let the chips fall in their places. I seem to be getting better results with just this mindset.
Today was my first day back at work since winter break. I work as a tutor at a public high school. I was friendly if I wanted to, but I noticed I mainly kept to myself by either reading some of the alpha/sigma books on my phone or check up on the forums here (definitely addicting lol). As far as interactions from others, the faculty were very warming to me while the students were hits and misses. I had one interesting event where I went to a classroom to thank a young teacher for helping me with my cover letter over the break. She's fairly young, late 20's, and cute in her own way. When talking to her, I could sense some tension in the air. I myself was calm and collected, but I could sense she was looking at me differently than before. Our interaction was brief as I had to leave, but I'm sure I'll be seeing her again during the semester.
Meanwhile, I heard back from the arena football team. Unfortunately, my class schedule conflicted with their working schedule. So I won't be able to intern with them during the semester. However, they would love for me to come in during the summer once I'm done with school. The opportunity is there, just need to seize it. In fact, I'll have to speak with their faculty next week on possibly volunteering some time when I'm available during school.
Also, will be hanging out with my female friend on tomorrow evening. I noticed with my text messages with her, I've been very assertive in what we were going to do tomorrow. And surprisingly, no resistance from her at all. Before the subs, I would only be suggestive when I interact with girls and the plans usually falls apart because of it. It's like I let the girls make the decision of where to go, rather than me. Since the subs, I've been brunt and make my assertions clear on what I wanted to do. So far, it's working smoothly. Good thing is, if we hang out tomorrow, I'm going in with no expectations. Whatever happens, let the chips fall in their places. I seem to be getting better results with just this mindset.
