01-04-2015, 07:00 AM
(01-04-2015, 06:37 AM)rubman Wrote: In essence what spirituality says is that when you love yourself, nothing is important, everything is released continuosly, even if your partner cheats on you, you keep being happy as more partners will come. As love only attracts positive experiences.
I didn't think you were "hating", I just think it's best to keep this in mind. /\
That's the big picture.
It is also important to realize that, when you're able to love, there is no such thing as "cheating". You can share, and be shared. The idea of traditional marriage (and monogamy) is based on fear and insecurity, it's also based on the idea that we can own or control someone. If a woman you love wants to have fun with someone else, do you REALLY love her if you would deny her that pleasure?