BIABW is awesome.

[Mystic Pymp]

Be warn this post is very harsh in the end, don't read it if you can't stand it.

In my mind it's not as dramatic as what you wrote. They can't be trusted and so what? It's not the end of the world. Learn to live with it and understand what it really means. But it's generalization, some woman can be trusted if you don't push her too far of course xD. I would gladly believe that it's possible but the fact say otherwise. We are human, when I'm very horny I go over the edge very easily, It's worse for woman I heard.

Married couples betray each other often in occidental country, it's not a big deal, they make a deal out of it so it become a big deal. In the first place you decide if it's a big deal or not. I'm sure you can find some country who doesn't care about this. To me marriage fail because people don't understand human nature. They think people behave like in the TV they watch all day. Then of course they are disappointed because they are living in another reality. The return on earth is hard.
It doesn't mean every marriage fail, it just mean woman can't be trusted that's all.

Be ready for the worst and hope for the best. Be ready to lose everything. Happiness come from inside anyway. Why the f** would you care if your married woman f* another dude, she is not dead at least. She just prove to you that she is human and she has strong attraction from the opposite sex (she is healthy and asking for more).

I actually like your last paragraph I like it very much. I guess I'd have it if it was first time someone said it, but since I've read about it in "Alpha Male 2.0" it actually makes sense. Still I believe I am right on my points and wishful thinking or truth I'd rather stay where I am than to believe that I cannot trust nor confide with woman.

I'm happy it's sounds much less hateful now, hateless even. I'm glad.

Sorry for off-topic, but I think I know where from I got belief that there are women to be trusted. And no, it's not my mother nor Disney fairy tales. If I'm right about it it changes my believes little in the end, but at least I'll be able to eliminate another "beta" behavior in me

Precisely. It's not personal, it's biological.

So you say you cannot overcome your biological needs? I mean sure, I get that, sex is only natural, but so is killing or maiming other in fight for dominance. Why don't you fulfill this biological need as well? We are more than machines of carbon and oxygen, we must not do as we are programmed. Cheating (I mean in closed marriages or similar arrangements) and blaming it on a nature is silly and outright offending. If (s)he's so horny why does one accept such arrangement against the nature? It's like sawing one's mouth not to eat cake.

In short - "biological" can be embraced (open marriage) or controlled (model closed marriage), we are not slave to it as it sounds from your post.