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[Mystic Pymp]

I know I was harsh on this post. I didn't intend to put down woman. Woman has other great qualities but trust is simply not one of them.

My mom is like a blackbox, no one really know what's inside (she is kind of special). It doesn't mean I don't respect her. It's just that I can't put faith/trust in someone who behave like that. I can't know what her next move will be, she is unpredictable but I still like/love her, I like to guess what she is going to do next. She is fun, she know how to handle my father and keep the balance where it's needed. She has very good social skill and it's almost impossible to manipulate her. But I would be crazy to trust her. It doesn't mean she not worth my affection.

If you read my post and feel hurt you have just let your feeling control you. If you would have being rational, you would have question everything. Nothing can really be trusted. There are man who behave more like woman so man also cannot be trusted. But as a general rule woman tend to be more unreliable. It's not their best qualities. It doesn't mean they are all like that, some woman behave more like man.

But to me you should question everything you think you know, at least once. You can't trust what you think is true. Every real scientist question everything if they want to move forward. Feeling are great to move faster , they help us on a daily basis but sometimes they are just completely wrong. A feeling doesn't equal to truth, that's way we can be manipulated.

Read that you might understand it better:
http://www.pheromonetalk.com/evolutionar...en-21.html

I'm sure your mother is a saint Seriously though, I think I know what you mean about her.

I didn't feel hurt, I felt sad or even sorry for you (this sounds bad, does it?). I know your believes are well justified, but I think this sort of reasoning will bring you nowhere in the long run. Or I'll put it differently - you're talking about the majority (where your believes apply very well), and I'm talking about 1 in thousand exceptions that are there, but are rare and far in between.

I do question everything, especially now while doing AM6. I start to entertain ideas I'd disregard months back and I learn a lot. But it's one thing to investigate, question and conclude, it's another to generalize and be paranoid. I've wrote about girl being hateful towards men in my journal couple of days ago and let me tell you, in this conversation we are no better than she was. If we think women are manipulative and not to be trusted, and they think he are heartless assholes, how far will it lead us? If we were nations, it would be World War III.