11-02-2014, 11:41 AM
I got Poetry of Silent Eros 1-5 as a bundle, yes.
As for this journal... well, it is starting as an Eros test. Here's why.
The wife and I are spending some time working with a sex-therapist friend on improving some aspects of our (otherwise healthy) relationship. While he is doing that, I don't want to muck about, per se, with to many other life-hacks.
I figured that the Poetry of Eros stuff, from instructions, and a blog I once found from early 2014 where a guy exposed his wife to it for 45 days, would be a good test for short and long term effectiveness, while I come up with a more long-term plan for us.
Anyway... here goes...
Day 2:
So, last night the wife listened to Volume 2 (the ultra-sonic) for about two and half hours before bed, switching to Volume 5 for about twenty minutes before bed, and then it ran through the night (so for approximately eight hours).
I watched closely, and unfortunately noticed no responses from her. No flushing of the skin, no playing with her hair. She generally seemed unresponsive.
At one point I think an opportunity presented where we joked about all the sex we might have once our friend is through helping us, but she very casually said she thinks our volume of sex is fine as it is.
In essence, not much to report. We did cuddle throughout the evening, but that is our normal mode for watching TV/relaxing anyway.
As we slept I do think I heard her perhaps moaning a couple times in her sleep, but can't say one way or another if it was sexual. I on the other hand had a pretty intense sex dream. Go figure. :-p
On to day three!
As for this journal... well, it is starting as an Eros test. Here's why.
The wife and I are spending some time working with a sex-therapist friend on improving some aspects of our (otherwise healthy) relationship. While he is doing that, I don't want to muck about, per se, with to many other life-hacks.
I figured that the Poetry of Eros stuff, from instructions, and a blog I once found from early 2014 where a guy exposed his wife to it for 45 days, would be a good test for short and long term effectiveness, while I come up with a more long-term plan for us.
Anyway... here goes...
Day 2:
So, last night the wife listened to Volume 2 (the ultra-sonic) for about two and half hours before bed, switching to Volume 5 for about twenty minutes before bed, and then it ran through the night (so for approximately eight hours).
I watched closely, and unfortunately noticed no responses from her. No flushing of the skin, no playing with her hair. She generally seemed unresponsive.
At one point I think an opportunity presented where we joked about all the sex we might have once our friend is through helping us, but she very casually said she thinks our volume of sex is fine as it is.
In essence, not much to report. We did cuddle throughout the evening, but that is our normal mode for watching TV/relaxing anyway.
As we slept I do think I heard her perhaps moaning a couple times in her sleep, but can't say one way or another if it was sexual. I on the other hand had a pretty intense sex dream. Go figure. :-p
On to day three!
