10-18-2014, 07:55 AM
Hey Adam I hope the birthday party went okay. I definitely know what you mean by hanging around people who are like that. My problem is that some of my family members are like that as well. I was wondering how I would handle another family gathering.
Yesterday was a little odd. We forgot to pick up my little niece and nephews because my sister was going out.
Anyway my sister came over to pick them up as usual and sat on the couch displaying how tired she was. Then she asked if I wanted to bring them to her house later on. I told her no and she proceeded to lay on the couch telling everyone that it was time to go. Of course nobody wanted to go home right away and she would keep telling them it's time to go without putting any action behind it. For some odd reason I got angry and felt like I was being manipulated. I walked out of the room my sister did the usual "calling" my little nephew wanted to play one more game and I said no. I think she got the message then and finally got up and started getting everyone ready to go.
I'm not quite sure why I felt the manipulation. I think she hoping I would change my mind and let the kids stay, but she knows that isn't going to happen. Still not to sure about that one maybe it was all in my head.
I notice that my male co-wrokers are giving me some more attention. Asking me what my plans are for the weekend (which sadly isn't anything but that is going to change one way or another doing little things to help me out it's a little weird
I need to get used that this.
I'm going out to eat later on to day so I get to see other peoples reaction. Can't wait
Also my mom has been a little clingy It's like if she makes plans she automatically includes me in them. Don't get me wrong I love my mom but I was hoping to go out without her. Maybe hoping she could go out with her friends instead.
Right now I'm watching t.v. and feel kind of high. I don't like this feeling at all but I don't control the t.v. my aunt does. Other than that I would have it turned off. On the plus side looking at people flip houses gives me an idea to give that a try.
Yesterday was a little odd. We forgot to pick up my little niece and nephews because my sister was going out.
Anyway my sister came over to pick them up as usual and sat on the couch displaying how tired she was. Then she asked if I wanted to bring them to her house later on. I told her no and she proceeded to lay on the couch telling everyone that it was time to go. Of course nobody wanted to go home right away and she would keep telling them it's time to go without putting any action behind it. For some odd reason I got angry and felt like I was being manipulated. I walked out of the room my sister did the usual "calling" my little nephew wanted to play one more game and I said no. I think she got the message then and finally got up and started getting everyone ready to go.
I'm not quite sure why I felt the manipulation. I think she hoping I would change my mind and let the kids stay, but she knows that isn't going to happen. Still not to sure about that one maybe it was all in my head.
I notice that my male co-wrokers are giving me some more attention. Asking me what my plans are for the weekend (which sadly isn't anything but that is going to change one way or another doing little things to help me out it's a little weird
I need to get used that this.I'm going out to eat later on to day so I get to see other peoples reaction. Can't wait
Also my mom has been a little clingy
It's like if she makes plans she automatically includes me in them. Don't get me wrong I love my mom but I was hoping to go out without her. Maybe hoping she could go out with her friends instead.Right now I'm watching t.v. and feel kind of high. I don't like this feeling at all but I don't control the t.v. my aunt does. Other than that I would have it turned off. On the plus side looking at people flip houses gives me an idea to give that a try.
