I have kind of erm the opposite problem. Ahem.
I have a very high sex drive (TMI sorry) don't have my own place so can't bring guys who don't have their own place back here anyway which also limits my options sexually and only find a small percentage of guys attractive and only some of them like me so therefore it's easy for me to tend to want to move fast but sometimes to my detriment and for me sexually I want to feel like - I mean I DO have a lot of guys wanting sex and I am saying no no no but I want to attract more actual dates but I want to be able to more easily erm hold out until I know his intentions. Without dying of sexual frustration! Cos I LOVE sex and I almost feel like I NEED sex sometimes but I also love and want to be romanced. So I'm sort of curious about the Alpha female from the other side of that and also whether it might help attract a well not even "better" quality of guy as I don't think there is anything wrong with guys or gals wanting just sex but I mean to have more choices or be more likely to attract guys who want to wine and dine me actually SEE me as i guess a "high value woman" someone they want to impress and for god's sake get THEM off the pedestal in my mind and put ME on it!
That it might make them more likely to think potential girlfriend than potential screw.
Part of it is I HAVE an aura of sexiness TOO much of that but I want them to see that hey yes she is beautiful and sexy but there is also something else about her I really like, let's not rush this one, let's get to know her a bit first. Type of thing.
I know I have a lot to offer but I don't think I KNOW that on a deep enough level, if that makes sense? I want to feel like I have a lot of options. Right now I could have sex lots and lots of times if I wanted it and sometimes I do but I want it to be like this more with dating.
It is to a point but not enough.
I love going out with a man for dinner gosh even coffee or drinks or a walk in the park - which is free! - and having a chat and a laugh with a handsome man and a bit of flirting. I tend to jump in way too quick because my type of guy seems so rare and I guess I want to be seen as the special one for a change. Again, without dying of sexual frustration!
Or even better have sex when I want but STILL have them wanting more than JUST that!
I have a very high sex drive (TMI sorry) don't have my own place so can't bring guys who don't have their own place back here anyway which also limits my options sexually and only find a small percentage of guys attractive and only some of them like me so therefore it's easy for me to tend to want to move fast but sometimes to my detriment and for me sexually I want to feel like - I mean I DO have a lot of guys wanting sex and I am saying no no no but I want to attract more actual dates but I want to be able to more easily erm hold out until I know his intentions. Without dying of sexual frustration! Cos I LOVE sex and I almost feel like I NEED sex sometimes but I also love and want to be romanced. So I'm sort of curious about the Alpha female from the other side of that and also whether it might help attract a well not even "better" quality of guy as I don't think there is anything wrong with guys or gals wanting just sex but I mean to have more choices or be more likely to attract guys who want to wine and dine me actually SEE me as i guess a "high value woman" someone they want to impress and for god's sake get THEM off the pedestal in my mind and put ME on it!
That it might make them more likely to think potential girlfriend than potential screw.
Part of it is I HAVE an aura of sexiness TOO much of that but I want them to see that hey yes she is beautiful and sexy but there is also something else about her I really like, let's not rush this one, let's get to know her a bit first. Type of thing.
I know I have a lot to offer but I don't think I KNOW that on a deep enough level, if that makes sense? I want to feel like I have a lot of options. Right now I could have sex lots and lots of times if I wanted it and sometimes I do but I want it to be like this more with dating.
It is to a point but not enough.
I love going out with a man for dinner gosh even coffee or drinks or a walk in the park - which is free! - and having a chat and a laugh with a handsome man and a bit of flirting. I tend to jump in way too quick because my type of guy seems so rare and I guess I want to be seen as the special one for a change. Again, without dying of sexual frustration!
Or even better have sex when I want but STILL have them wanting more than JUST that!
