Darwin, the need to "be right" stems from insecurity about being right. The smarting from not being invited to a party stems from insecurity about not being liked enough by others, popular enough, etc.
I know this because I used to have those too. Now, I don't. If I know I am right, and I have stated my case and the other party(ies) deny me, okay. Whatever. They're welcome to either believe what they believe, or prove me wrong. But shy of proving me wrong, WHO CARES!!! I can still believe what I believe is right, and it does not require their acceptance for it to be valid!
Likewise, don't invite me to a party? I won't even notice. Why? Because I am never without something interesting and/or important I can be doing, and very likely it's a lot more interesting and/or important than any party I might not get invited to.
Want to be alpha? Stop worrying about what others think, and start self validating. I'd wager that you were on those depression meds during AM6 because AM6 was forcing you to face a lot of deep fear about not being good enough. Keep going long enough with AM6, and you'll overcome it, just as I and many others have. Wise choice to run it again. Kudos.
I know this because I used to have those too. Now, I don't. If I know I am right, and I have stated my case and the other party(ies) deny me, okay. Whatever. They're welcome to either believe what they believe, or prove me wrong. But shy of proving me wrong, WHO CARES!!! I can still believe what I believe is right, and it does not require their acceptance for it to be valid!
Likewise, don't invite me to a party? I won't even notice. Why? Because I am never without something interesting and/or important I can be doing, and very likely it's a lot more interesting and/or important than any party I might not get invited to.
Want to be alpha? Stop worrying about what others think, and start self validating. I'd wager that you were on those depression meds during AM6 because AM6 was forcing you to face a lot of deep fear about not being good enough. Keep going long enough with AM6, and you'll overcome it, just as I and many others have. Wise choice to run it again. Kudos.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
