Fluffybunny, how long have you been going out? You didn't get laid before SM3, I presume? With or without SM3, it just sounds very surprising that you had approaching down already and then went out consistently in clubs and doing day game and didn't get laid... no disrespect intended, I'm just thinking there is either some loose variable, or you're just right at the brink of getting it. Did SM3 bring about so much resistance that it kept you from getting results? Do you like going out? Are you showing you're sexual pre/after SM3? Are you going out sober or drunk? Do you live somewhere where loose sex is a big taboo? Are you going out with people who are also doing approaches or with friends that are keeping you from approaching? Do you always stay until the end of the night? Did you get any comments that your eye contact or presence is getting more solid?
It'd be really interesting to have more NSFM diaries for sure to observe just what it does ;) But at least it should be faster-acting and "sure-fire" if you run it for 3+ months. I mean the program is only 30min long and Shannon says it might be enough to run it for 1-4 hours, so 3+ months should bring about the results, period. No 2nd run throughs necessary and I wouldn't expect the amount of resistance were seeing for SM3. I'm still going for SM3, though, but that's just me being a perfectionist and taking the slow road.
If you look at the manual, half of the program is 'foundation building' and the other half is manifesting. The manual mentions at least these foundation building aspects:
self confidence, self esteem, self respect, self validation, self control, refusal to be tricked or mistreated sexually, overcoming previous restrictions concerning women and sex, generation of auras, kills neediness, increases sex drive, refusal to have sex with underage girls, escalation de-sensitization, body language effects and eye seduction, detection of, and refusal to have sex with, women who are attempting to manipulate you with sex, trick you into getting them pregnant or have STDs, sexual stamina and self control, “pulling the trigger” resistance removal, effortless socializing and flirting (NSFM?), automatically steering conversations toward sex and escalating to sex in other ways, touch and touch based seduction.
(07-21-2014, 04:49 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I'm wondering if a "state" sub (specifically NSFM) would be better to run than SM at all. I mean, seems like all we're noticing is that you need to do something (which the sub won't do for you), and then be able to be in a good state while doing it.
It'd be really interesting to have more NSFM diaries for sure to observe just what it does ;) But at least it should be faster-acting and "sure-fire" if you run it for 3+ months. I mean the program is only 30min long and Shannon says it might be enough to run it for 1-4 hours, so 3+ months should bring about the results, period. No 2nd run throughs necessary and I wouldn't expect the amount of resistance were seeing for SM3. I'm still going for SM3, though, but that's just me being a perfectionist and taking the slow road.
(07-21-2014, 04:49 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: The more I think about it, the more I wonder what SM is even for.
If you look at the manual, half of the program is 'foundation building' and the other half is manifesting. The manual mentions at least these foundation building aspects:
self confidence, self esteem, self respect, self validation, self control, refusal to be tricked or mistreated sexually, overcoming previous restrictions concerning women and sex, generation of auras, kills neediness, increases sex drive, refusal to have sex with underage girls, escalation de-sensitization, body language effects and eye seduction, detection of, and refusal to have sex with, women who are attempting to manipulate you with sex, trick you into getting them pregnant or have STDs, sexual stamina and self control, “pulling the trigger” resistance removal, effortless socializing and flirting (NSFM?), automatically steering conversations toward sex and escalating to sex in other ways, touch and touch based seduction.
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