Been a while since my last report. I'm on my 2nd week (Day 15) of stage 3. One thing that the Alpha Set has done has completely freed me from expecations regarding women. In particular, there's a girl at school who I've been interested in since probably the day I first saw her, but the way I've handled it has shocked even me. Yes I'm flirty with her, but even when I see here hugging on other guys (especially the other day when she locked the guy in a pretty tight embrace) I said to myself "I'm not comitted to her and she's not comitted to me so who cares?". That moment right there really impressed upon me how far I've come thanks to the Alpha Set. This time last year (or hell, even earlier this year) I probably would have become jealous, and begun seeking attention from her or worse yet, becoming moody and passive-aggressive which is NOT alpha.
I actually feel somewhat heartless when it comes to relationships with women, because I know that they're imperfect, that they have desires for sex just as much as I do or any other man for that matter, and I realize that until they've proven TO ME that they're capable of being faithful/trustworthy then I honestly shouldn't set such high standards for them.
The social aspect of the Alpha Set has been shining through in subtle ways, such as how I'm able to interact with both men and women. Having little concern by what others think gives you more freedom in saying what's on your mind. I've also noticed that even when people try to challenge me subtly, I'm able to brush it off and plow right through it with little hassle at all.
I'm loving this sub more and more with each passing week, even though I believe that 32 days per stage would have probably been sufficient, doing 40 days seems to have more staying power, and I know whatever changes I experience will be even MORE permanent. About 3 weeks until Stage 4.
I actually feel somewhat heartless when it comes to relationships with women, because I know that they're imperfect, that they have desires for sex just as much as I do or any other man for that matter, and I realize that until they've proven TO ME that they're capable of being faithful/trustworthy then I honestly shouldn't set such high standards for them.
The social aspect of the Alpha Set has been shining through in subtle ways, such as how I'm able to interact with both men and women. Having little concern by what others think gives you more freedom in saying what's on your mind. I've also noticed that even when people try to challenge me subtly, I'm able to brush it off and plow right through it with little hassle at all.
I'm loving this sub more and more with each passing week, even though I believe that 32 days per stage would have probably been sufficient, doing 40 days seems to have more staying power, and I know whatever changes I experience will be even MORE permanent. About 3 weeks until Stage 4.
