11-17-2010, 07:23 PM
Roy.. a good way to see if it's really working is to look at how people look at you from a differenet perspective. not from yourself internally but go ahead and analyze a situation and be that someone else. Notice how they reacted to you then than they did in the past. For alot of people this doesn't change but you can easily tell this with people that are not as confident as you or have the same self esteem. Also the people that are used to looking for approval might look for it more from you in subtle ways.
