06-04-2014, 02:38 PM
I rediscover over and over again that if you want to succeed in anything you need to do one thing at a time. To focus on one thing at a time because we only have as much willpower to just excel in one thing.
I believe that’s the way. If you want to do many things at once then create a system which you don’t have to do much to make all the things work.
Ex. excelling in women, what is my intent? To date multiple women. How? By start talking to them. My only focus is to talk, then the next step and the next step but not until I have reached a set timeframe for talking to women.
Ex. for 21 days, I’ll just talk to women. 21 days passed, okay this 21 days time I’ll focus on body language and eye-contact. Next 21 days I’ll invite girls to come along with me etc.
All the learning, the principles, the lessons I need to learn for dating multiple women are learnt by trusting the process and going with the flow with intent.
Now the system part is more advanced and needs focused work to be done but can become very efficient and be superior to the former.
Ex. in business, a very simple one, I hire someone to manage my business and I only have to do very little work and get an income. Of course the business has to go well before you can do that.
I believe that’s the way. If you want to do many things at once then create a system which you don’t have to do much to make all the things work.
Ex. excelling in women, what is my intent? To date multiple women. How? By start talking to them. My only focus is to talk, then the next step and the next step but not until I have reached a set timeframe for talking to women.
Ex. for 21 days, I’ll just talk to women. 21 days passed, okay this 21 days time I’ll focus on body language and eye-contact. Next 21 days I’ll invite girls to come along with me etc.
All the learning, the principles, the lessons I need to learn for dating multiple women are learnt by trusting the process and going with the flow with intent.
Now the system part is more advanced and needs focused work to be done but can become very efficient and be superior to the former.
Ex. in business, a very simple one, I hire someone to manage my business and I only have to do very little work and get an income. Of course the business has to go well before you can do that.
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
