03-01-2014, 08:43 AM
Girls who shit test you with arguments are trying to see if they can piss you off. It's a test and a game in one. If you can play the game and not get pissed off, as it was mentioned above, they'll be impressed and you win. If not... well, you're not the man they thought you were (alpha).
Remember that an alpha doesn't need someone else's approval, so he often does not care what others think, or say. If someone was to insult America, or Americans, would I care? Not very likely. I might be American, but I have no delusions that America and Americans are even close to perfect, and it's really none of my business what others think of them. I also don't care. To each their own, and whatever, I don't have time to waste on it.
By being unflappable, unaffected and remaining in control of yourself, you demonstrate the superiority she is testing for. She would not be testing for it if she didn't think it might be there in the first place. So when women shit test you, consider it a compliment, and remain unaffected and unattached.
I have a close friend who always pulled women so easily that I could not stand it for years. He did this by absolutely not giving a flying rat about what the outcome was, and always playing it a bit cocky, arrogant and smarmy while being entirely unaffected by their responses and always prodding their weaknesses. He used to pull the hottest women in the room into bed in one night, nearly every time, doing this. I don't agree with the technique because it focuses on not just "negging" her, but being particularly specific and cruel in how you do it. The hotter a woman is, the thicker her "bitch shield" (to use PUA parlance), but every suit of armor has weak spots. He was expert at stabbing her through the weak spots, right through the heart, and then getting them to respond with either desperation (sex to feel like they were good enough) or ego (again, sex to feel like they were good enough).
You don't have to do it negatively like that, but you do have to remain unaffected by her banter. Just remember that she's trying to bait you into losing self control, and that it's just a game. If you feel like it, play it with her - give it back in kind - but never allow yourself to become emotionally involved or affected by it, or you lose. I speak from personal experience here.
Remember that an alpha doesn't need someone else's approval, so he often does not care what others think, or say. If someone was to insult America, or Americans, would I care? Not very likely. I might be American, but I have no delusions that America and Americans are even close to perfect, and it's really none of my business what others think of them. I also don't care. To each their own, and whatever, I don't have time to waste on it.
By being unflappable, unaffected and remaining in control of yourself, you demonstrate the superiority she is testing for. She would not be testing for it if she didn't think it might be there in the first place. So when women shit test you, consider it a compliment, and remain unaffected and unattached.
I have a close friend who always pulled women so easily that I could not stand it for years. He did this by absolutely not giving a flying rat about what the outcome was, and always playing it a bit cocky, arrogant and smarmy while being entirely unaffected by their responses and always prodding their weaknesses. He used to pull the hottest women in the room into bed in one night, nearly every time, doing this. I don't agree with the technique because it focuses on not just "negging" her, but being particularly specific and cruel in how you do it. The hotter a woman is, the thicker her "bitch shield" (to use PUA parlance), but every suit of armor has weak spots. He was expert at stabbing her through the weak spots, right through the heart, and then getting them to respond with either desperation (sex to feel like they were good enough) or ego (again, sex to feel like they were good enough).
You don't have to do it negatively like that, but you do have to remain unaffected by her banter. Just remember that she's trying to bait you into losing self control, and that it's just a game. If you feel like it, play it with her - give it back in kind - but never allow yourself to become emotionally involved or affected by it, or you lose. I speak from personal experience here.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
