02-10-2014, 11:44 AM
AfzalG
Incorrect. SM3 tells you to sense and reject women who will use you, manipulate you or mistreat you. I think you got caught up in trying to consciously conform to what you thought was what the crowd wanted you to do, instead of just doing what you thought was the best thing to do. I also think you did this based on some misunderstanding of the advice I and others gave. But if you learn from this, it's worth your time.
It depends on her particular personality, how she is emotionally damaged and various other circumstances. In the end, no matter what, if you decide she must be out of your life, you will do what it takes. I have seen men move across the country to get away from toxic women, and for good reason.
AfzalG:
again, what you were being told was, pick one course of action, stick to it and own it fully.
I would hardly be laughing at such a law, or a situation. In the US, prisons are increasingly becoming privatized, meaning that someone (company/shareholders) actually make a profit from imprisoning people. Between laws and public belief that a woman claiming assault/rape is infallibly correct, and someone making a profit if you are imprisoned in a privatized prison, we have a recipe here for a disaster of untold proportions. Guilty without proof, and profitably too.
Just pray that that law's passage doesn't mean Germany is following in the footsteps of America's idiocy.
Quote:it is pretty naive to think that no women can do any damage to you ... it is what the sub tells you but it doesnt mean that it is a fact...
Incorrect. SM3 tells you to sense and reject women who will use you, manipulate you or mistreat you. I think you got caught up in trying to consciously conform to what you thought was what the crowd wanted you to do, instead of just doing what you thought was the best thing to do. I also think you did this based on some misunderstanding of the advice I and others gave. But if you learn from this, it's worth your time.
Quote:@Shannon: Since you've got a great deal of experience in this matter, I'm curious, do these type of women ever let up if the person in question is in close proximity? I know that distancing yourself is usually the way to go but what if AfzalG can't do that right now? I'm asking because I'm curious how he's suppose to deal with this chica if she's this insistent, this manipulative, and this close to him.
It depends on her particular personality, how she is emotionally damaged and various other circumstances. In the end, no matter what, if you decide she must be out of your life, you will do what it takes. I have seen men move across the country to get away from toxic women, and for good reason.
AfzalG:
Quote:and yes it is easy for you guys to tell me like master yoda : "do or dont do there is nor trying"
but the truth is i know her for only for 3 months in this 3 months we spoke like few words only (of course before this started with her offer)... things i told you is what i heard from others i wanted to see for myself what kind of person she is ... thats why i asked for the blowi ...she showed her ugly face to early so its easy for me to reject her ... as far as i know sm is designed to help you easily recognize and reject women who want to manipulate you with sex...
again, what you were being told was, pick one course of action, stick to it and own it fully.
Quote:@Shannon great analysis... you should write a book about women ... like i said i live in germany and i think it isnt very different than in us ... there is even a new law here where a women can accuse you for raping her if she didnt like the sex with you lol
I would hardly be laughing at such a law, or a situation. In the US, prisons are increasingly becoming privatized, meaning that someone (company/shareholders) actually make a profit from imprisoning people. Between laws and public belief that a woman claiming assault/rape is infallibly correct, and someone making a profit if you are imprisoned in a privatized prison, we have a recipe here for a disaster of untold proportions. Guilty without proof, and profitably too.
Just pray that that law's passage doesn't mean Germany is following in the footsteps of America's idiocy.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
