Delta's AM6 Journal

[InTheZone]

Questions:

How do you balance being a gentleman and an alpha male? An alpha male isn't supposed to act like he cares, but a gentleman is supposed to show his affections.
Update: After reading Double Your Dating, he suggests doing those gentlemanly things once you are in a committed relationship. I can't remember if there is anything about that in How To Become An Alpha Male. But I guess that answers my question. And I have to say that I agree with it. She must be worth the effort, time, and money. (And being in college, I'm uber tight on money lol)

It has been a month since I read this but I believe he was talking about mixing both aspects together to build attraction not necessarily reserving being a gentleman for committed relationships only. I think of the example of taking a woman to dinner for a first date. You should pull out the chair when she is sitting down (gentlemen) and then when she orders a salad you would say "Oh no, you're not one of those salad girls, are you?" Its a basic form of push-pull.

How humorous can an alpha be? I definitely feel like I'm losing my goofy, fun loving, hilarious self. Or maybe it's just because I'm still depressed over the break-up. I don't know.

I think alphas are humorous and fun to be around. The people that can laugh at themselves show real confidence.

Alright, I make it a point to read the AM6 page in the shop at least twice a week. One thing I'm concerned about is how it releases the need to get the girl. That's fine and dandy, but does it allow you to still feel love for someone? Do alphas still get butterflies in their stomach when they see or talk to "that" woman? Do they WANT to love a woman? I know relationship preferences are different for everyone. Currently (maybe AM6 will change it) I believe in monogamy, especially if you like the person and are committed to them. Do alphas not commit? I also believe that if I have sex with a girl, if I'm not making a drunk mistake lol, she should be relationship material.
Maybe I'm a little messed up, definitely selfish. If I'm having sexual relations with a girl, I don't want her having sex with anyone else; but…I can lol. That's not fair and that's not right; makes me a hypocrite. When I'm with a girl, it disgusts me just to think about the other guys she's had sex with. It's like I'm afraid of koodies. I'd definitely like that to change. Perhaps I'm just in a funk or growing up, but since I don't quite have happiness coming from within, how can someone be happy without someone to love? I know it sounds needy and stupid, but that's how I feel. If I was super rich, but didn't have anyone to love and share the money and my life with, it would all be meaningless…I think. I don't know if society or family or whatever conditioned me to think like that, but that's how it is. Or does AM6 just totally put you on a whole new level where all of this becomes irrelevant and I truly am happy no matter what happens?

I've only been through AM once so I'm not a shining example of an alpha, but, the real difference is between needing a woman and being happy by yourself. I don't feel like I need a woman to have a great time or life. Would it be nice to have an awesome women? Certainly! Do I need to stop my life to find one? Absolutely not. The really cool thing is that when you stop feeling like you need a woman, then you can start seeing all the other things that are important to you.

Welcome to to forum. Looking forward to see your journey. I think you're really going to like Alpha Male. It is an awesome program..