01-16-2014, 08:39 AM
Questions:
How do you balance being a gentleman and an alpha male? An alpha male isn't supposed to act like he cares, but a gentleman is supposed to show his affections.
Update: After reading Double Your Dating, he suggests doing those gentlemanly things once you are in a committed relationship. I can't remember if there is anything about that in How To Become An Alpha Male. But I guess that answers my question. And I have to say that I agree with it. She must be worth the effort, time, and money. (And being in college, I'm uber tight on money lol)
How humorous can an alpha be? I definitely feel like I'm losing my goofy, fun loving, hilarious self. Or maybe it's just because I'm still depressed over the break-up. I don't know.
Alright, I make it a point to read the AM6 page in the shop at least twice a week. One thing I'm concerned about is how it releases the need to get the girl. That's fine and dandy, but does it allow you to still feel love for someone? Do alphas still get butterflies in their stomach when they see or talk to "that" woman? Do they WANT to love a woman? I know relationship preferences are different for everyone. Currently (maybe AM6 will change it) I believe in monogamy, especially if you like the person and are committed to them. Do alphas not commit? I also believe that if I have sex with a girl, if I'm not making a drunk mistake lol, she should be relationship material.
Maybe I'm a little messed up, definitely selfish. If I'm having sexual relations with a girl, I don't want her having sex with anyone else; but…I can lol. That's not fair and that's not right; makes me a hypocrite. When I'm with a girl, it disgusts me just to think about the other guys she's had sex with. It's like I'm afraid of koodies. I'd definitely like that to change. Perhaps I'm just in a funk or growing up, but since I don't quite have happiness coming from within, how can someone be happy without someone to love? I know it sounds needy and stupid, but that's how I feel. If I was super rich, but didn't have anyone to love and share the money and my life with, it would all be meaningless…I think. I don't know if society or family or whatever conditioned me to think like that, but that's how it is. Or does AM6 just totally put you on a whole new level where all of this becomes irrelevant and I truly am happy no matter what happens?
How do you balance being a gentleman and an alpha male? An alpha male isn't supposed to act like he cares, but a gentleman is supposed to show his affections.
Update: After reading Double Your Dating, he suggests doing those gentlemanly things once you are in a committed relationship. I can't remember if there is anything about that in How To Become An Alpha Male. But I guess that answers my question. And I have to say that I agree with it. She must be worth the effort, time, and money. (And being in college, I'm uber tight on money lol)
How humorous can an alpha be? I definitely feel like I'm losing my goofy, fun loving, hilarious self. Or maybe it's just because I'm still depressed over the break-up. I don't know.
Alright, I make it a point to read the AM6 page in the shop at least twice a week. One thing I'm concerned about is how it releases the need to get the girl. That's fine and dandy, but does it allow you to still feel love for someone? Do alphas still get butterflies in their stomach when they see or talk to "that" woman? Do they WANT to love a woman? I know relationship preferences are different for everyone. Currently (maybe AM6 will change it) I believe in monogamy, especially if you like the person and are committed to them. Do alphas not commit? I also believe that if I have sex with a girl, if I'm not making a drunk mistake lol, she should be relationship material.
Maybe I'm a little messed up, definitely selfish. If I'm having sexual relations with a girl, I don't want her having sex with anyone else; but…I can lol. That's not fair and that's not right; makes me a hypocrite. When I'm with a girl, it disgusts me just to think about the other guys she's had sex with. It's like I'm afraid of koodies. I'd definitely like that to change. Perhaps I'm just in a funk or growing up, but since I don't quite have happiness coming from within, how can someone be happy without someone to love? I know it sounds needy and stupid, but that's how I feel. If I was super rich, but didn't have anyone to love and share the money and my life with, it would all be meaningless…I think. I don't know if society or family or whatever conditioned me to think like that, but that's how it is. Or does AM6 just totally put you on a whole new level where all of this becomes irrelevant and I truly am happy no matter what happens?
